Sunday, December 9, 2012

1. I am an eighteen-year-old cisgender female. I don’t know what sexuality I identify with at all.

2. I have had 2 sexual partners over the course of my life – my boyfriend, whom I am with now and have been with for a year, and a female friend I had sex with a couple times before him.

3. I really love my boyfriend and our relationship, but sometimes I feel like I’m missing out because I haven’t had sex with very many other people.

4. I fucking LOVE scissoring so damn much. Now that I’m with a guy, I miss it sometimes.

5. Half the time I love giving blowjobs, the other half of the time I hate it.

6. I’ve never had an orgasm. I have absolutely no idea why – I know that it doesn’t have to do with either partner I’ve had, because I can’t do it through masturbation either, even when I use a vibrator.

7. I would love to try more BDSM – thinking about getting dominated turns me on a lot.

8. When I was eight, one of my classmates sexually molested me. It still upsets me to think or talk about it much.

9. My sex drive has just started to come back in the past two months, after about two years of next to nothing. This is due I think to two different medications that I just recently quit in the past year: antidepressants and birth control. My low sex drive has been a huge source of frustration for me, especially after I started dating my boyfriend.

10. I have a few kinks, mainly related to BDSM, that are definitely out there, although I haven’t actually tried them yet. I don’t know if I ever will.

11. Visual porn does nothing for me, but written erotica can definitely turn me on.

12. Sex is a lot better for me when I love or at least deeply care about the person I’m with. I also can get turned on for it much more easily when that’s the case.

13. The idea of a dick in my anus doesn’t really bother me, but for some reason the idea of fingers in my anus turns me off.

14. I have a hard time feeling sexually attractive sometimes because my breasts are so small, even though no one I’ve fooled around with has ever minded them.

15. I don’t really like how penises look in general, but I am deeply attracted to my boyfriend’s.

16. A girl with a penis turns me on.

17. I’m really attracted to men’s shoulders and chests, and women’s stomachs.

18. For me, the best part of sex is the intimate connection it creates with the person(s) you do it with.

19. I never used to tell my partners if they were not really making me feel good while we were having sex – even though my boyfriend asked me to on several occasions. Then one day, I broke down and spent a solid hour teaching him how to finger me right and eat me out correctly, and the whole experience was so intimate and hot that I wish I’d just done it way earlier.

20. I have had sex while on mind-altering substances, but for some reason most of them--with the exception of alcohol--don’t really turn me on that much – instead they make me want to spend a lot of time talking with my partner instead.

21. I fantasize about watching someone I’m with fuck another person.

22. I absolutely adore the way hands feel on my hips.

23. Seeing a boner through a guy’s boxers or jeans drives me absolutely wild.

24. If I can’t cuddle after sex I get really sad and feel kind of empty.

25. There are few things I like more on this planet than watching my partner’s face when he or she orgasms.