1. I remember being about 10 or 11, and walking around the house in the middle of the night with an erection. That of course was before I worked out what it was all about.

2. I masturbated often when I was young.

3. I learned about pleasuring a guy first - the joys of an all boys school. I still regret never going down on a guy.

4. My first experience with a girl was feeling my friend's girlfriend's breast when we all crashed after a drunken party, age 18. I felt so guilty about it afterwards.

5. She wanted to save herself, so I perfected the art of attending to her needs orally and with my fingers. It was frustrating at the time, but the lessons have been appreciated since.

6. I lost my virginity aged 19. The first time I was so nervous I came before I entered her. Luckily I stayed over, and we consummated the deed the next morning.

7. My first wife was relatively unadventurous. She didn't like anal or giving oral, and only needed sex a couple of times a week.

8. When I was 23 I slept over at my sister's place, and one of her friends was there, and I fingered her to orgasm on the couch with my sister sleeping across the room.

9. I fantasise often about having sex with people I know, imagining what it would be like to have no inhibitions.

10. My first wife talked me into swinging. One one level I loved it; on another I found it hard to perform.

11. I discovered pornography early - my uncle had a Penthouse lying around and I started reading it. I didn't quite understand what was happening to me when I got hard.

12. I found my father's stash of magazines in his closet - I used to steal in there, take a magazine and pore over it for weeks, then return it and get another.

13. I love erotic stories rather than pictures. Even now I prefer to masturbate to stories rather than pictures or movies.

14. I am an exhibitionist and a voyeur. I have performed in front of a web-cam and using chat, and love the idea of being watched. I used to masturbate in front of a mirror, so I could see the images. Even now I leave the curtains open and the lights on.

15. My current wife loves sex - we make love almost every night. I love the fact that she always has multiple orgasms (up to a dozen in one session) - it makes me feel successful /talented.

16. I get so excited by having my nipples teased and by kissing.

17. My wife can have an orgasm just by me kissing her and playing with her breasts.

18. I love giving oral - the sensation of being down there, licking, teasing, biting, tasting is very fufilling.

19. I used to be worried /unsure about the fact that I wasn't circumcised. Almost all the boys my age were, and I felt different. Then when I got older I felt like I couldn't last as long as I wanted to, because I was much more sensitive. Now I'm OK with it - it's much more prevalent, and I can manage my performance better.

20. I had wild sex in the back of a van in a parking garage on the 4th of July - traffic was backed up, we'd had a couple of drinks and the van windows were tinted. I was a little tense though, as I hadn't been in the States long and I had this idea I'd get deported if we were caught.

21. I was once propositioned twice in one night. I was 39, they were in their twenties or thirties, and I turned them both down. I was separated but seeing someone else, and even though I wanted to so bad I felt like I couldn't.

22. I married the girl I lost my virginity to. I wish I'd had more partners, either when I was young or before I got married the second time. It would have been good to sow some oats. Even in today's society there is positive stigma from a reasonable number of sexual partners.

23. There was a "tart-test" that went around work a while back - get points for your sexual activities. I think I made it to 78%, second highest that I heard of. I enjoyed it when people did a double-take when they heard my score.

24. I would love to have sex on an airplane, or bus, or train.

25. I was online for a while at a "rate-my-.." site. It was exhilarating to know you were there, in full view, and that other people were getting excited by it.