1. I’m pansexual, polyamorous, transgendered, and into BDSM. It seems easiest to just say “I’m queer.”

2. Just because I’m pansexual doesn’t mean I’ll fuck anyone.

3. I was 14 when I had my first kiss with a childhood friend.

4. One day later we lost our virginity together.

5. Wearing women’s clothing is sometimes a sensual experience for me.

6. I think triads make the most sense as a relationship.

7. I have a tendency to fall for my friends.

8. I have had one semi-serious relationship, and we never so much as kissed because we were both so insecure.

9. I bite my wrist when I orgasm alone.

10. I’ve never drawn blood from that, but I have cut myself in order to play with my own blood. I find blood incredibly arousing, unless it’s menstrual blood. Then I’m usually too freaked out to think about sex.

11. I’ve never had a wet dream. Sometimes I wonder if that means there’s something very wrong with me.

12. I am very, very uncomfortable with my own body, even though I watch porn and masturbate almost every single day. It takes a long time for me to feel comfortable enough to allow a partner to touch my genitals.

13. I like looking at almost all types of bodies from an artistic standpoint.

14. I have orgasmed from giving head.

15. I love it when my partners have body hair, regardless of their gender.

16. I still experience shame about my sexuality.

17. Men in suspenders make me hot.

18. I love it when very masculine looking men wear women’s clothing and/or makeup.

19. When I was 12 I cybered regularly while pretending to be older.

20. I’m attracted to people barely legal up to people in their 40s or 50s. I’m 21.

21. I love love love men with long hair.

22. I want to have sex with a clone of myself, because sometimes I feel like no one else will ever be able to understand me.

23. I really hate fake-looking, oversized boobs. Some girls look like they’re about to topple over and it can’t possibly be comfortable.

24. I’m not part of the ‘scene’, but I like to wear collars out in public, regardless of whether or not anyone else can see them. It gives me a rush that I can’t explain, even when I don’t have a partner.

25. I like to watch.