1. I'm a 28-year-old female, and I identify primarily as heterosexual.

2. I've had sex with 5 men and 1 woman.

3. I've been married for 5 years to someone who loves me and would do absolutely anything to make me happy. I've cheated on my husband with 3 separate men over the past 3 years. He is completely oblivious to this fact.

4. I was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship for over 6 years to the man that I lost my virginity to. I never cheated once. He cheated on me.

5. I lost my virginity when I was 15.

6. I thought I was bisexual until I actually had sex with a woman. Turns out I like the idea of it more than the actual reality.

7. I primarily watch gay and lesbian porn as well as MMF bisexual porn. Straight porn does close to nothing for me.

8. I masturbate every day.

9. My first sexual experiences were with a female friend of mine when we were about 8 or 9 years old. We would take turns pretending to be boyfriend and girlfriend and enact sex, although we never actually had sex or kissed. It was more like naked humping.

10. I have incredibly low self-esteem and I hate the way I look naked. Ironically, I've posed naked for a professional photographer multiple times in the past; these pictures are still online on a well-known adult site.

11. I am extremely submissive in bed. I enjoy pain, I like to be hit, spanked, tied up, called names, choked, humiliated, made to cry. The rougher the better. As a feminist, I'm slightly ashamed of these violent desires and fantasies and I only share them with those I completely trust.

12. I enjoy anal sex.

13. One of my biggest fantasies is to have a MMF threesome, where the guys not only fuck me but also each other.

14. The idea of pegging really turns me on.

15. I have rape fantasies.

16. Almost every guy I've gone down on has told me that I give the best blow job they've ever had. The trick is to convince them that it's your favourite thing in the whole world to do.

17. One of the oddest things I've ever done is cover myself in food for a guy with a wet and messy fetish while he masturbated and then ejaculated all over me.

18. I love to tease and have a massive build-up to sex via rude emails, text messages etc.

19. I have fantasies about having sex with someone much younger then myself, a kind of Mrs. Robinson scenario.

20. I've been to sex clubs, and I enjoy being a voyeur. One day, when I'm with the right people, I'd like to participate in group sex.

21. I bought my first vibrator on my 16th birthday in Ann Summers. It was purple and glittery.

22. I have a fascination with blood and the idea of having someone cut me during sex. I'm not sure it's something I'd actually like to act out in real life, but I think about it often. I get quite turned on watching and reading about vampires, which started when I first saw The Lost Boys aged 7.

23. If I were to have a type, it would be a tall, stocky guy with a beard and lots of tattoos. But really, I like all kinds of different guys... tall, short, thin, chubby. The tattoos are kind of a must, though.

24. It's a turn-off when a guy shaves all of his pubic hair off; it makes me think of pre-pubescent boys. I also prefer the au naturel look on women.

25. I rarely orgasm during intercourse, and I fake it often. Usually I can only ever make myself come. Only a couple of times has someone else been able to get me to climax.