Thursday, October 1, 2009
2. I have no idea how to flirt without dancing. I am always baffled when someone finds me attractive without them ever having seen me dance. (I am damn shy, but an incredible dancer) But I find it incredibly sexy and probably the best foreplay.
3. My first real kiss with a guy was at 18, and a girl at 20.
4. I lost my virginity at 20. I started the night by inviting 3 guys to a party and deciding I would sleep with whoever was the most interested. I just wanted it over with. I accidentally fell in love, and so did he. We both wanted a one night stand.
5. The sexiest night I ever had was sleeping fully clothed next to a girl on a tiny bottom bunk bed – holding her all night and breathing in her smell of sweat, beer, and cigarettes. We didn't even kiss.
6. When I was in elementary school another girl and I would play in her bathroom in very softcore BDSM scenarios. The memory embarrasses me but I am still very submissive and into BDSM porn.
7. I find it somewhat hilarious when someone is incredibly into me. This spurs me to make them shiver and squirm as much as possible for as long as possible.
8. The first blow job I ever gave was in the bathroom of a hostel.
9. I have a tendency to start laughing while making out or having any sexual encounter. This often makes my partner self-conscious. It's all just a bit gross, and amusing because of it.
10. I often wonder why sex isn't considered more like eating. If you were starving no one would look down on you for eating at McDonald's.
11. I didn't drink alcohol for years, and I wonder if this is part of the reason I didn't start having sexual encounters until much later than most people. Alcohol definitely helps.
12. I would love to be involved in a three-way relationship with a guy and a girl. Despite, or because of, all the emotional and sexual mess it would entail.
13. The first time I masturbated was because I desperately needed to while reading one of the Harry Potter books. The need to masturbate and the story weren't connected at all. But I still felt weird.
14. I think I kissed the most boys in my kindergarten class.
15. I fell in love for the first time with a straight girl when I was 17, and I didn't know until she broke my heart years later.
16. I love listening to people have sex, and watching gay PDA.
17. Sometimes I am surprised that I have never been raped. Not because I do anything dangerously, in fact quite the opposite, but I'm still kind of surprised.
18. I am incredibly attracted to androgyny.
19. I have absolutely no interest to do anything sexual with someone I'm not interested in intellectually.
20. I try to keep from washing my hands for as long as possible after masturbating. I like the smell to remind me of it throughout the day.
21. I am afraid to forget the name of anyone I've ever kissed.
22. I have only had vaginal intercourse four times, but it has hurt intensely every time.
23. I don't remember my first orgasm, I just know they've been getting better and better ever since.
24. I'm interested in hooking up with a FTM trans guy.
25. I've never been in a real relationship.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
2. The first time I masturbated to the point of orgasm was with a baby carrot, in my basement, taking instruction from a stranger in an online chat room.
3. That was one of the best orgasms I've ever had.
4. I knew I was a lesbian when I watched Pirates of the Caribbean a second time just to see Keira Knightley in that corset.
5. Taking naked pictures of myself for my girlfriend turns me on.
6. I've masturbated with various household objects: toothbrush, handle of a razor, hair brush, random bottles...
7. Before I was able to own my own vibrator, I attempted to make one out of an electric tooth brush and a plastic container which used to house my POGS collection. It didn't work out so well.
8. I tried anal once. It was an embarrassing, messy experience which yielded no pleasure. But considering some of my best orgasms have been when my nipples, clit, and vag are being stimulated all at once, I sometimes wish I had enjoyed it just to add that extra pleasure to the mix.
9. I didn't know what the word "lesbian" meant until I was in the 5th grade. Kids had been calling me that at school, so I went home and asked my mom what it meant. When she told me, I was even more afraid of my feelings for other girls. Putting a word to it made it abnormal and that was far too scary.
10. Sometimes, I wish I could suck my own nipples.
11. I love having my ass slapped.
12. I fantasize about my girlfriend waking my up by fucking me with one of our dildos.
13. I once witnessed porn involving a girl and a very friendly snake. It was nothing short of freaky.
14. Lesbian porn makes me cringe more than anything. Those long fingernails are just so painful to watch.
15. I'm afraid that if my girlfriend and I move in together, we will stop having sex. We will just go about our day, come home, eat, talk a little, then shuffle off to bed... where we will sleep. This thought terrifies me.
16. My first time was perfect. It's been nearly 2 years and I have never once had any regrets. She was sweet and gentle and made sure I wanted to continue. It was nothing I had expected and more than anything I had imagined.
17. I am very submissive. Most of the time when I turn the tables and become more dominant, it's just to feel her strength overpower my own.
18. A lot of times after receiving sex, I feel greedy but am too blissful and exhausted to worry.
19. I have never had sex with a man. Just kissing them felt wrong; I would always be thinking about laundry or school work or anything but the actual situation.
20. I don't lean more towards femme or butch girls when it comes to persona/ appearance, but I find that butch girls are usually more dominant... the way I like it.
21. One of my favorite parts about having sex with my girlfriend is how little noise she makes, so when she does make a sound, I know I'm doing something right.
22. I had the most mind-blowing sex tonight with my girlfriend. I didn't tell her it was that great. I always feel as if she won't believe me, especially considering how clichéd it sounds. But tonight definitely fell under the category of "mind-blowing."
23. I get extremely sleepy after sex.
24. For 1 million dollars most people would jump at an otherwise comparable sexual act, but I'm fairly sure that unless I was dying I would never give a man a blowjob for any amount of money.
25. I find the idea of "squirting" to be really interesting. I'm very skeptical for some reason and want to try it for myself to see how it works exactly.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
2. I started playing with my clit when I was about 8 yrs old. I have a fairly large clit and I can remember trying to figure out (at 8) what it was for. I used an electric toothbrush as my first vibrator, and the tub filler was another favorite way to cum. I rubbed my clit and stuck all kinds of things into my vag.
3. My first boyfriend was in college. I was technically a virgin, but see #2. I faked orgasms many times with him, until I got a vibrator. He introduced me to porn, and we went to strip clubs together. I got birth control pills from the University.
4. The next 10 years were fun, with a series of boyfriends, but the sex was not great, just ok. I enjoyed masturbation more than fucking during this time. At 27 I got pregnant and had an abortion. Pretty traumatic, and I have since been very pro-choice and very vocal about it. After 10 yrs of mediocre sex, I was ready for something better.
5, I met my H on a blind date. I wanted to fuck him right then, but he made me wait. We finally had sex on our third date and I knew he was the one because he really took the time to play and suck my clit and he made me come over and over. He came 6 times that night. He had his own plug-in vibrator. He had porn magazines and video tapes. He was my dream!
6. I think about sex all the time and sometimes beg him for it. I love sucking his cock. I love watching him cum and I also love swallowing and licking it all up. I sometimes daydream about it while playing with my nipples and my clit.
7. He always makes sure I cum first, before he does. Always.
8. I still masturbate regularly. Sometimes twice a day. I use a mirror because watching my clit swell and throb turns me on even more. I use a Wahl 7 vibrator. It came with 7 attachments, but I just use one.
9. I love X Tube and X Hamster porn sites. Bookmark them and enjoy. Maybe someday I'll even send in a clip of us fucking. Or a clip of my clit doing its thing (a clit-clip?)
10. My next toy will be a butt plug. I love the feeling of something in my ass when I come. This is a fairly new discovery and I am excited to learn and do more.
11. Anal fucking can be absolutely amazing. When I'm really horny and turned on and his cock is lubed up from my cunt, and he goes in gently and slowly. Then I touch the vibe to my stiff and swollen clit...
12. I have never faked an orgasm with my H. Never.
13. We watch porn together, and share fantasies. He would like to have two women, and I would like to try two men.
14. My favorite porn is amateur, close ups, and both cocks and clits. I love watching huge dicks squirting lots and lots of cum. I hate watching a long vid and the guy comes maybe a squirt or two. No, I want to see the thick milky spurts of hot goo.
15. I also like watching women masturbate with real orgasms. I am constantly comparing my clit to the ones labeled "big" and I usually find mine is bigger. I would probably enjoy a piercing somewhere around it, one where I could feel it against my clit every time I moved or walked. But I am too chicken.
16. I am intrigued with clit pumping. I have used my vacuum cleaner hose so I have some idea of what it feels like. Not sure about it yet. Still doing the research.
17. I discovered recently that I can lick my own nipples. I would love to be able to suck on them. I love the clips of guys sucking their own cocks.
18. I wonder what it would be like to squirt. Just very messy, or a mind-blowing cum? I can't really tell from the porn I've seen if the orgasm is any better or just different.
19. My favorite position is 69 with me on top, then after we are both really turned on, I move to reverse cow-girl and ride his pole. This gives the vibe great access to my clit, and he can keep his fingers in my butt (unless his cock is there). The orgasm is always amazing.
20. Did I mention he always makes sure I come first? He says he loves the feeling of my orgasm on his cock--the spasms and contractions hugging his cock.
21. His big cock in my tight asshole is an incredible feeling, and when I come I can feel his cock so far up there. My most amazing orgasm EVER was when he was in my ass (see #19) and he had a few fingers in my vag, and the other hand was playing with my nipples and the vibe was on my rock-hard clit.
22. I also like to watch gay porn, especially when the guy on bottom has his dick in his hands and he comes while the guy on top is still going at him. I really love watching cocks explode with cum. It's such a turn-on to watch a guy stroke his cock.
23. I breast-fed my two kids, and there was definitely a sexual component to it. Plus my H enjoyed the taste too! And ever since, my nipples have become very sensitive. When they are sucked a lot, I feel it right down in my clit.
24. Recently I started shaving my vag and I really love the feeling of my bare lips rubbing against each other. Plus, I can see my clit better.
25. The best thing about sex is it's getting better and better as I get older. Menopause and hot flashes were a bit of a worry, but once past that it's just wonderful orgasms and making each other feel fantastic. And trying new things with each other keeps sex fresh and exciting.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
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1. I’m not sure if I’m bisexual or just bi-curious, but not in the way you’d expect. I know that I’m attracted to women (I’ve had sex with 2 of them), but I’ve never had sex with men.
2. I didn’t date anyone until I was 19, and I ran away from the first guy that I found sexually appealing. Literally ran away. I only dated him for about 10 days. I saw him walking towards me, yelling my name, and I got too nervous. We didn’t even kiss. I probably would have let my nerves get to me like Stan on South Park and barfed on his shoes.
3. I didn’t even masturbate until I was 21 or 22. I used to be hard-core religious, and I thought it was a sin. My first orgasm scared me a little, because I thought it would feel different for some reason. I remember thinking that nothing would happen when I touched myself, because I didn’t feel much initially, but I kept going anyway. I started to daydream about everything under the sun. Finally, it happened when I was in the middle of thinking why Indian people have dots in the middle of their foreheads.
4. I think 69’s are disgusting. I only tried it once. I’m not a fan of getting intimate with anyone’s anus, and that position was way too close of an encounter.
5. I didn’t even have sex until I was 22. My first girlfriend never had sex with a girl, but she had many years of experience with men. She wanted to take things slow with me. It was the longest 2 months of my life.
6. A couple of my friends told me that females can ejaculate, and I didn’t believe them. Then, about 2 or 3 weeks later, I actually did it myself while trying a new position with my girlfriend at the time.
7. With my second girlfriend, I found out that being the dominant one can be extremely exciting. It makes me wet just thinking about it sometimes.
8. I’ve only been with “fems,” but I wonder what it would be like to be with an androgynous or butch woman sometimes.
9. I’m usually just attracted to women, but every once in a while I see a man that I find to be extremely sexy. I think I might be more attracted to bisexual or gay men more than straight men.
10. The idea of a woman with a penis excites me, but I don’t know how much I’d appreciate it in real life.
11. The idea of a guy’s cum is disgusting to me. I’m not really sure why, because I’ve never seen it outside of watching porn.
12. I used to think doggy style meant anal sex. I learned otherwise when I was in high school. I heard some people talking about it, and I was too embarrassed to say what I really thought it meant.
13. I like to masturbate while reading erotica. It actually turns me on more than the images and sounds of porn videos.
14. I’ve watched porn with my friends on many occasions. For some reason, it usually wasn’t arousing. I’ve also watched late night TV shows about sex with my friends, and that was more arousing than the porn. It never turned into anything sexual between us, but I can’t say that I never wanted it to.
15. I like to fantasize about watching other women have sex with each other. I’ll be in the same room, but I’ll be tied to something, usually a chair. They’ll look at me while they touch each other, but I can’t touch them.
16. The two women that I’ve been with have both liked to dominate me during sex. It turns me on to be dominated, and it turns me on even more if I know that they’re enjoying themselves.
17. I enjoy B & D, but S & M scares me a little. I know one couple that seems to regularly incorporate pain with their sexual encounters, and I don’t really understand why. Maybe I’ll try it someday and find out. On several occasions, I’ve had my wrists tied so tight that my hands have been crimson to purple by the time my partner and I were finished. Even though it hurt a little, I still don’t think that I’d enjoy a lashing.
18. I like to give oral more than receive it.
19. I like to touch my girlfriend while she’s sleeping, even when she’s wearing clothes.
20. The most exciting place that I’ve had sex was in the shower at the gym. I suppose that it was because it was a public place, and we could have been caught.
21. It’s exciting to me to watch my sexual partners touch themselves.
22. I’ve never had sex with a third party watching, but I think it might be exciting to try it.
23. I like to have my ears lightly bitten while having sex.
24. A threesome, or even an orgy, sounds appealing to me. I’ve fantasized about it, but my fantasies usually don’t involve men. When they do involve men, they usually play a minor part.
25. My favorite kind of porn is “she-male” with female. My usual “type” of woman is tall, blond, and just slightly curvy (in the right places). I love to watch the “she-male” penetrate the female.
2. We lost our virginity together at 17. Driving home with the condoms we were giddy and happy and so excited. When it actually happened, he was so careful and intimate. I felt so close to him that day.
3. I never orgasmed until I turned 18 and bought a vibrator. It was for lack of trying, but my fingers would get tired and I wouldn’t be feeling anything. When I finally got a vibe, it was an epiphany.
4. I own three vibes right now.
5. I’ve come twice without my vibe, both times with my fingers after having PIV sex with my boyfriend. It feels great but it takes so long, even if I haven’t used my vibe in a month. It doesn’t feel worth it most of the time.
6. Same with oral sex--just bores me, feels okay but not enough to continue.
7. We’re in an open relationship but neither of us has slept with anyone else yet. I wonder if it would be amazing or awesome… I want to try it out this year.
8. I get really bored with PIV sex after a couple of seconds. Pumping doesn’t do anything at all. Sometimes I make noises so my boy doesn’t feel bad, but I never fake it.
9. I’ve asked him if he has any fantasies. He always says no, which kind of disappoints me. I love the idea of surprising him with something that would really turn him on, but he says he’s just really vanilla.
10. One of the sexiest times with my boy during sex: we were fucking on a chair, and he lifted me up while he was still in me and thrust me onto the bed. It was so hot.
11. I want to be spanked, slapped, hurt during sex. Every time I mention BDSM, though, the boy talks about how sick that kind of thing is. I’m too nervous to ask for anything.
12. I wish I could come more easily without my vibes. Sometimes I think I’m defective. It’s the only thing that could make my boy really ecstatic during sex. He doesn’t want to finger me for 45 minutes, but hell, neither do I.
13. I like blow jobs. I like using my lips. I’ll throw up if I try to deep-throat it, though.
14. I started having crushes on girls this year, which is new and kind of embarrassing. I’ve always thought of myself as an allied heterosexual, but this new development is still unsettling in some ways. A lot of the people I know who are bi are girls who would never really date a woman and I don’t want to be seem like that.
15. Best masturbation position: on my knees, vibe to clit, thrusting. Another vibe up my cunt if I can get it there.
16. Whenever I masturbate for my boy, it’s on my back so he can see everything, but that actually takes longer for me.
17. We stained my parents' couch downstairs. Oops!
18. I get jealous when the boy tells me stories about his friend’s girlfriends when they orgasm really explosively/easily.
19. I think I ejaculated once. It gushed out and it was really cool, but it hasn’t happened since.
20. I want to play with an uncircumcised cock, just to see what it is like!
21. I love love love reading about sex. I’m picky about my erotica, though, which makes it kinda hard. Grammar mistakes and lame stories turn me off.
22. I’m an ‘almost A’ cup. I wish I had boobs to play around with!
23. My favorite position is doggy, but it’s hard because the boy slips out and it hits a really sensitive part of my vagina, which feels good but bad at the same time.
24. My neck is so sensitive and I love it when my boy pays a lot of attention to it. I don’t think even he gets how much I like it… I would give up kissing on the lips for more time kissing, licking, biting my neck! Mm.
25. My boy is never sexier than when he makes me laugh.
2. Even though I prefer to take women to bed, when I masturbate, I'm usually thinking about giving head.
3. The single most exciting thing to me is giving head while a girl watches. If she's naked and masturbating, I can cum without ever being touched.
4. The second most exciting thing to me is kissing a girl, especially for the first time.
5. I enjoy the taste of my own cum. I discovered that when a girlfriend didn't swallow after going down on me and then French kissed me. I've begged other girls to do that to me and am often surprised when they refuse.
6. I intentionally seek out new sexual experiences, I'm always most excited by the new.
7. I've been married ten years and it's been an open relationship the whole time. It's also the best relationship I've ever had. Neither of us find monogamy natural, and she understands my constant search for the new would be difficult in a monogamous relationship.
8. I love experimenting with fetishes, at least the mild ones.
9. I've been giving head since I was 18, but it wasn't until last year that I actually felt comfortable kissing a man. It's not exciting, like kissing a woman, and I only do it when I'm with a man who really likes it, to please him.
10. The first woman I slept with was a prostitute. She was overweight and I felt sorry for her, but I also found her very attractive. I complimented her a lot and I must have made her feel a lot better about herself, because she wouldn't take my money.
11. I'm still very attracted to larger girls, I liking helping them feel sexy. I like girls of all shapes and sizes, but I'm usually drawn to larger girls in a crowd. One of my favorite things to do with large girls is titty-fuck them and then lick up my cum. Then I kiss them. Most of them get incredibly turned on by this. Only one girl ever told me that she didn't like it, and her reaction was extreme. She thought a guy eating his own cum was the most disgusting thing she's ever seen. Oddly, it wasn't a gay revulsion, because she got really excited watching me give head.
12. I love watching my wife get fucked by other men and then eating their cum from her. The men are often fascinated by it and I've had more than one man who claimed to be completely straight at the start of the night offer to let me give them head.
13. I love sucking a cock that's been inside a pussy. The flavor is amazing. Especially my wife's. We have a friend who comes over regularly. He fucks her until he's almost ready to cum, then she makes him pull out and I finish him off.
14. I feel like I'm being too explicit with this list and that I'm going to gross some people out. I also think it may turn some people on and that thought excites me. I also stopped once while writing this list to masturbate.
15. I like to cross-dress at home. I think pantyhose and skirts and women's panties all feel incredible on my skin. I'm wearing pantyhose as I write this. Sometimes, I wear them at work under my pants. It keeps me excited all day.
16. My wife has a fantasy about watching me give head while dressed as a woman, but she's the only one who knows I cross-dress. The idea excites me, but embarrasses me also. It's the only part of my sexuality I'm uncomfortable with. I hope to get over it this year and do it for her at Christmas.
17. The best kiss I ever had was incestuous. I was 16 and she was 14, my cousin. It was just a kiss, but it was a real toe-curler. I kissed her one more time, over twenty years later. We talked about sleeping together, but didn't. She has slept with my wife and told her that I was the best kisser she had ever known. That thought always gives me a tingle and I fantasize about her sometime. I don't think I'll ever actually have sex with her, but I'd like to watch her with my wife once.
18. She's married too, and her husband was one of the first guys I had sex with, back when we were teenagers. She told me once, that she watched me give him head once, from his closet. I've offered to do it again, but she's not sure how he'd feel about it. Another fantasy.
19. I also have a thing for feet, and love a good foot job. My wife is fantastic at it. I love licking cum covered toes.
20. I enjoy receiving anal sex, as long as the guy has a small cock. I like the lack of control and the feel of hands grasping my hips. I like being cum into.
21. I love the sound of a women cumming more than any sound in the world. They all sound different and they all sound wonderful.
22. Every once in a while I meet a woman and think, wow, I'd just love to take her to bed. It's amazing how many times that wish comes true, several years later, and I end up thinking back to the day I first met them.
23. I have two girlfriends that I see regularly, outside of my wife. Both of them were girls I thought that of when I first met them. One of them is the best lover I have ever had.
24. I like threesomes and prefer them with one girl and another guy. When I'm with two women I often spend a lot of time just watching.
25. I'll end with my weirdest fantasy. I'm sitting on a couch, making out with a girl who loves to kiss. We're both fully clothed. Every so often, a naked man comes in, we stop what we're doing, I get on my knees and go down on him. When he cums, he leaves, never saying a word. I go back to the couch and resume kissing the girl. This happens again and again, a different guy every time. I've mentioned this to my girlfriend (she's more adventuresome than my wife and enjoys making out a lot more.) We only know two guys that we trust to be clean and safe. She said if we can find two more, she's game.