1. When my sister and I were growing up, we always secretly assumed my father was gay. Circumstantial evidence amounted to the following: He and my mother divorced early on in their marriage, he worked for Conair (a company that designs and manufactures hair products/appliances), he married/dated characteristically strong-willed, independent, socially “masculine” women, he got facials, massages and manicures on a regular basis, had a keen eye for quality and design, and had mostly gay male friends. We also frequently vacationed in Rehoboth Beach post-divorce (hello?!). However, as my sister and I aged, we disgruntledly accepted my father’s heterosexuality, and came to admire and appreciate our father, who was the very model of “live and let live.” It is because of him that all of my first memories of LGBT people are positive ones, and why I never saw being LGBT-identified as anything out of the ordinary.

2. Despite having virtually no memories before the age of 7 or 8, I vividly recall being aware of myself as a sexual being at a very young age. Even so, I had very few questions, and those whose answers I couldn’t intuit through observation I actively sought information about through other means (magazines, the internet, the books of erotica shoved haphazardly under my mother’s bed, etc.). As proved true through my adolescent life, I became something of a sexual sage for my friends, even before I lacked the hands-on experience.

3. My earliest crushes on boys proved to be all-consuming affairs. I was an awkward child, slightly overweight with a deep throaty voice and an affinity for baggy jeans and vests, so very rarely were any of my attractions returned. My best friend was a voluptuous Colombian beauty, and if it weren’t for her heart of gold I would’ve distanced myself from her early on; my jealousy, too, was often all-consuming (as a side note, that girl and I are coming up on our fifteenth year of solid friendship).

4. When I hit the eighth grade my body composition changed, as did my eye for fashion, and I found a new confidence. It was around this time that those around me began coming out to me as gay/lesbian-identified. It was also the time that I began a 6-year-long affair with one of those confidants, a gay-identified male whose undeniable attraction to me he couldn’t begin to articulate.

5. I am a firm believer that your sexual orientation/gender identity is a direct result of a combination of genetics and environmental influences. That being said, I am certain that since my earliest sexual experiences were with queer men, such as the one identified in #4, it provoked a lifetime of attraction to pretty, emotive, styled men (who have been, more often than not, queer-identified).

6. I was first shown porn in the eighth grade by a gay male friend; the internet clip depicted a very attractive young man jerking off of a stone balcony. Much of the porn I sought thereafter was male-on-male, though I soon found that I could be turned on by virtually any combination of genders, and I would often fantasize about being the center of group attention, whether it was a group of men, women, or mixed.

7. While porn certainly turned me on (and continues to), I’m much more of a literary mind than a visual one, and reading erotica turned into one of my favorite pastimes. I would often swipe my mother’s stash (see #2) while she was at work, lock my bedroom door and have at it. I’m extremely fond of my vibrant and detailed imagination.

8. My mother’s aforementioned stash didn’t stop at erotica; in high school my sister and I stumbled upon a large cache of sex toys in her closet. While my sister displayed genuine disgust, I faked mine, and later stole my mother’s vibrator, sanitizing it before using it for my own devices. My mother and I were on rocky ground throughout my adolescence, and one of our more violent altercations occurred after she discovered the vibrator in my room.

9. It was with the vibrator that I discovered that I have virtually no sensation inside my vagina; fortunately, the case with my clit was a different story. Even so, I didn’t orgasm until I was 20 years old, though not for lack of trying. I’ve faked orgasms (Oscar performance-worthy, I must say) through four different boyfriends and a few one-night stands, and even penned a 30-page dissertation on pre-orgasmic women my sophomore year of college, drawing majorly from personal experience.

10. I am extremely loud in bed, and sometimes am embarrassed by my inability to shut the fuck up.

11. When I’m masturbating, sometimes I’ll talk dirty to myself out loud, and 9 times out of 10 it’ll make me come. However I find it difficult to talk dirty to a sexual partner, no matter how much I want to, and I can’t figure out if it’s because I’m more submissive in bed than I’ll readily admit or because I’m too self-conscious.

12. Though I identified as heterosexual until two years ago (I’m now 21), I’ve always felt at home in the queer community, and used to wish desperately throughout my adolescence for a higher power to zap me with same-sex-loving tendencies (so maybe there is a God, after all!).

13. I’ve never had anyone try and put food on me erotically (ice doesn’t count), and I’m not sure how I’d feel about it, though I’m generally very open to safe and consensual experimentation.

14. Even though I advocate safe sex in my daily life and have written papers as well as taught workshops on it, there was a month-long period of time where I had unprotected sex with a guy who had never ejaculated (not even pre-cum), with no negative repercussions. I feel a lot less guilty about it than I reason I should.

15. I was very recently introduced to slapping (full-face) as something erotic, and I must say that I enjoy being the “slapper” more than I’d previously anticipated. Sometimes, as a student of psychology, I wonder if this says anything less-than-upstanding about me.

16. Having my feet sucked feels so unbelievably good, but I can’t get over how unhygienic it must be (unless you’re fresh out of the shower)!

17. I enjoy nipple play immensely – having them sucked, tweaked, pinched, rolled around, clamped, soft, hard, slow, fast, any which way! If someone has their mouth on my nipples and makes eye contact with me, it’s often intense enough to drive me crazy.

18. My favorite sexual position, hands down, is from behind. What I can feel but not directly see never fails to turn me on. During the most spectacular sex of my life, the person took their time seducing me completely from behind: massaging, kissing, scratching, etc, and it made all the difference.

19. I had a year-and-a-half relationship (my longest to date) with a Methodist youth minister while I was finishing up high school. We were deeply in love, and after months of torment made the decision to begin sleeping with each other, a decision that continuously tore at his faith and his opinion of himself, as well as strained relations with his family and friends; this strain, in the end, proved impossible to ignore, and succeeded in ending the relationship. Even though I’m agnostic, I used to silently attribute all that time spent not being able to orgasm (see #9) to being a kind of punishment from God for putting the burden of temptation on my ex.

20. My first sexual experience with a woman was about a year ago, during a month spent in San Francisco studying human sexuality. I’d be lying if I said I that I wasn’t interested in experimenting with women primarily for the novelty of it, but I’d also be lying if I said I didn’t enjoy it, cliché locale (Frisco? C’mon) as it was. I find myself primarily attracted to slim, small-breasted androgynous women; women who look like pretty boys, in essence (sound familiar?). Androgyny in general has become such an unexpected turn-on for me. Even trans boys have begun to attract my attentions within the past year, and I welcome the complexity.

21. I hesitate to self-identify as anything in particular (except as cisgendered; I have a dominant personality but I’m very much a high femme), but when pressed I will identify as “queer,” because I feel as though it’s the label with the least strings attached to it, and the least amount of assumptions made about it. It’s an umbrella term coated in shades of grey, and that way when I wake up 6 months from now finding myself suddenly attracted to turkeys (as I’m fully expecting to do!), I won’t have to keep swapping my identifier. On a more serious note, I’ve always felt that the best parts of myself shine the brightest when I’m surrounded by a variety of members of the LGBT community, and being “queer” seems to appropriately reflect that.

22. I really enjoy anal sex. Not fingers so much; it’s a matter of depth for me (SLOWLY. With, of course, a LOT of lube! Hah). Being open about this has literally garnered more critique/skepticism/surprise from people than recently embarking on my first relationship with a woman has.

23. In 3-4 years I’ve had a mere handful of sexual experiences that have contained an element of emotional intimacy as well as physical chemistry; in short, I’ve had a lot of flings. So much so that I’d forgotten how awe-inspiring sex can be with someone with whom you’ve made a tangible connection. My girlfriend is doing an excellent job at refreshing my memory.

24. Laughter in bed is key, and a lack of it has proven to be a dealbreaker more than once. Whoever said sex always had to be a tense, grave affair full of unspoken desires and unwavering eye contact just needed a good tickle below the belt.

25. Being in the human sexuality field and oftentimes unconsciously radiating erotic energy, it is assumed by most that I have (and require) the sexual appetite of a rabbit; this is incorrect. In my opinion, you can’t possibly define “intimacy” – it’s way too broad a term, and is too frequently simply attributed to procreation. When my girlfriend meets my gaze in a crowded room, it’s intimate. When she gets excited by something trivial, and turns to me alone for affirmation in her excitement, it’s intimate. When she selflessly offers to help my coworker (whom she’s never met before) move out of her house, and I can so easily read between her words, intuiting the message that states, “If this is important to you, it’s important to me,” it’s intimate. In my opinion, all these things trump sex.

1. My first kiss was with my lifelong best friend. We've messed around since, but I'm not attracted to him at all.

2. I'm a 22 year old bisexual girl. Yes, I'm truly bisexual. I'm tired of people assuming I'm gay and in denial, or just want attention.

3. My girlfriend of 6 years and I role play almost constantly. Usually we pretend to be gay men. We act out sex as if we were these characters. The characters have complex story lines, some of which we've written out, and there are hundreds of them. It's about escapism as much as sex.

4. I've led on guys, by accident, and then rejected them and really hurt them in the process, and usually not realized it for years.

5. I hooked up once with this guy who lived in my apartment complex. He came to my door, drunk, and asked if I wanted to hang out. I got drunk and gave him my first blowjob. It just really hurt my jaw. I never saw him again.

6. Despite really loving my girlfriend, I want to find a guy to marry and have kids with. I worry that no guy will ever live up to the fictional characters we've invented and fallen in love with.

7. I want a guy who looks like a girl. I'm more into androgyny than anything.

8. I read a lot of slash fan fiction. As in, stories about characters from books and video games having gay sex.

9. I would love to be with a transsexual, MTF or FTM.

10. When I was 17 I was molested several times by my martial arts master. He hired me as an assistant, then one time a few months later he pulled me into the back room. He did everything short of rape. I never reported him, mostly because I didn't want to have to talk about it with my mother.

11. Technically, I'm a virgin. I've never gone all the way with a guy. I look forward to it though. A lot.

12. One time, a guy that I kinda led on was touching me under a blanket while our best friends (including the guy from #1) were in the room. I didn't really like it, but couldn't make a scene to make him stop.

13. I wish I had a penis. Like, I don't consider myself trans, and I wouldn't get a sex change. I am actually pretty girly. I wear dresses sometimes, have long hair, etc. But I really really wish I had been born a guy. Then I could date gay guys.

14. I masturbate almost every night, usually for about an hour, with an electric toothbrush.

15. I've only ever been able to get myself off. No one else has ever given me an orgasm.

16. I had a foursome once. It was three girls, one guy. I mentioned #15 to one of them, and she insisted that she, her girlfriend, and her boyfriend (wish I was in her shoes) could get me off. It was excellent, but I didn't orgasm.

17. I love my boobs. They're a small C, perky, and perfect.

18. My first kiss with a girl was in the girls' bathroom in high school, in 10th grade. I had my first oral with a girl in that same bathroom.

19. My mother recently found out I'm bi. She just takes this as I'm gay, and says things like, "Guess I'll never get grandchildren." I really wish she would understand.

20. I don't like my crotch. There's too much hair and too much skin.

21. I have a first cousin who's two years older than me. I think he's beautiful and sexy and interesting and I really wish he weren't my cousin so I could have a chance at him.

22. I'm turned on almost all of the time. Some days I have to change my panties halfway through.

23. Though I've been molested and taken advantage of several times, by more than one guy, I still am turned on by someone pretending to rape me. It almost bothers me, that I'm still turned on by it. I mean, when it's happening, it's terrible and scary and gross. But in fantasy, it's so much fun. I like to be tied up and slapped around.

24. I doubt I'll ever by monogamous. I don't think humans are, biologically speaking, supposed to be. I've cheated on my girlfriend probably a dozen times, not including the times I told her about or the times she was there.

25. One time I watched my male friend have sex with his boyfriend. It was the hottest thing I've ever seen.

1. I believe I have slept with a total of six people, but the number could be more or less. I try not to keep count.

2. I had my first threesome a week and a half ago, with a man and a woman. It was incredibly sexy, but I was disappointed seeing as the other woman was very, very straight. She would hardly do anything with me.

3. I have no clue when I lost my virginity, but I do remember who it was with and that it was in my bed. We ate sandwiches afterwards.

4. I love the feeling of wax being poured over my body.

5. I love pouring wax on other people even more than I love it being poured on myself.

6. I masturbate all the time. Every chance I get, my hands are most likely down my pants.

7. The person I am currently with is the first person to ever help me reach orgasm. No one before him ever came close.

8. I can deep-throat -- and love every second of it.

9. Going down on girls that don't trim isn't in the least bit fun. I feel like I'm trying to find my way through a forest, and I always end up with pubic hair in my teeth.

10. I am always starving after sex. More than once, I've said to my partner, "Hey, go make me food. I'm gonna sleep; wake me up when the food's ready." Sometimes, that's actually worked.

11. Play piercing turns me on more than anything.

12. I would love to sleep with an androgynous man or woman.

13. My first kiss happened at summer theater camp the summer before seventh grade. We were all playing Spin the Bottle with a Sprite can in the lunch room.

14. I was watching Edward Scissorhands when I gave my first blowjob.

15. Recently, I tried making a list of everyone I've kissed. It didn't work too well.

16. If I'm in the mood, I can have an extremely dirty mouth.

17. I like men super skinny, while I prefer women to be a little curvy.

18. I enjoy watching porn immensely. Bukkake is probably my favorite.

19. I would love to pose nude for a photographer someday.

20. I have bite mark scars on my back from one very intense night.

21. Currently, my sheets are stained beyond belief. I should get a new set, but I love looking at the stains because they bring back wonderful memories.

22. I have never had anal, but I would like to try it some day with a partner I absolutely trust.

23. I love making the person I'm sleeping with squirm until they can't take it anymore, and they throw me down and pound me.

24. For years, I've had a rape fantasy that I've wanted to act out. No one has wanted to do it with me yet.

25. The best sex I've ever had happened at seven in the morning. The man I was with came to the sound of the train passing by my window. It was beautiful.

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1. I am a bisexual girl, and like most bisexuals I wonder if everyone is a bit bi and suppressing it for whatever reason.

2. I have no idea how to flirt without dancing. I am always baffled when someone finds me attractive without them ever having seen me dance. (I am damn shy, but an incredible dancer) But I find it incredibly sexy and probably the best foreplay.

3. My first real kiss with a guy was at 18, and a girl at 20.

4. I lost my virginity at 20. I started the night by inviting 3 guys to a party and deciding I would sleep with whoever was the most interested. I just wanted it over with. I accidentally fell in love, and so did he. We both wanted a one night stand.

5. The sexiest night I ever had was sleeping fully clothed next to a girl on a tiny bottom bunk bed – holding her all night and breathing in her smell of sweat, beer, and cigarettes. We didn't even kiss.

6. When I was in elementary school another girl and I would play in her bathroom in very softcore BDSM scenarios. The memory embarrasses me but I am still very submissive and into BDSM porn.

7. I find it somewhat hilarious when someone is incredibly into me. This spurs me to make them shiver and squirm as much as possible for as long as possible.

8. The first blow job I ever gave was in the bathroom of a hostel.

9. I have a tendency to start laughing while making out or having any sexual encounter. This often makes my partner self-conscious. It's all just a bit gross, and amusing because of it.

10. I often wonder why sex isn't considered more like eating. If you were starving no one would look down on you for eating at McDonald's.

11. I didn't drink alcohol for years, and I wonder if this is part of the reason I didn't start having sexual encounters until much later than most people. Alcohol definitely helps.

12. I would love to be involved in a three-way relationship with a guy and a girl. Despite, or because of, all the emotional and sexual mess it would entail.

13. The first time I masturbated was because I desperately needed to while reading one of the Harry Potter books. The need to masturbate and the story weren't connected at all. But I still felt weird.

14. I think I kissed the most boys in my kindergarten class.

15. I fell in love for the first time with a straight girl when I was 17, and I didn't know until she broke my heart years later.

16. I love listening to people have sex, and watching gay PDA.

17. Sometimes I am surprised that I have never been raped. Not because I do anything dangerously, in fact quite the opposite, but I'm still kind of surprised.

18. I am incredibly attracted to androgyny.

19. I have absolutely no interest to do anything sexual with someone I'm not interested in intellectually.

20. I try to keep from washing my hands for as long as possible after masturbating. I like the smell to remind me of it throughout the day.

21. I am afraid to forget the name of anyone I've ever kissed.

22. I have only had vaginal intercourse four times, but it has hurt intensely every time.

23. I don't remember my first orgasm, I just know they've been getting better and better ever since.

24. I'm interested in hooking up with a FTM trans guy.

25. I've never been in a real relationship.

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1. When I was around the age of 9, my mom woke me up for school one morning by pulling down my sheets. My underwear were pulled down. She started screaming at me, asking me why. I didn't know why because I didn't know what masturbation was until I was in the 6th grade.

2. The first time I masturbated to the point of orgasm was with a baby carrot, in my basement, taking instruction from a stranger in an online chat room.

3. That was one of the best orgasms I've ever had.

4. I knew I was a lesbian when I watched Pirates of the Caribbean a second time just to see Keira Knightley in that corset.

5. Taking naked pictures of myself for my girlfriend turns me on.

6. I've masturbated with various household objects: toothbrush, handle of a razor, hair brush, random bottles...

7. Before I was able to own my own vibrator, I attempted to make one out of an electric tooth brush and a plastic container which used to house my POGS collection. It didn't work out so well.

8. I tried anal once. It was an embarrassing, messy experience which yielded no pleasure. But considering some of my best orgasms have been when my nipples, clit, and vag are being stimulated all at once, I sometimes wish I had enjoyed it just to add that extra pleasure to the mix.

9. I didn't know what the word "lesbian" meant until I was in the 5th grade. Kids had been calling me that at school, so I went home and asked my mom what it meant. When she told me, I was even more afraid of my feelings for other girls. Putting a word to it made it abnormal and that was far too scary.

10. Sometimes, I wish I could suck my own nipples.

11. I love having my ass slapped.

12. I fantasize about my girlfriend waking my up by fucking me with one of our dildos.

13. I once witnessed porn involving a girl and a very friendly snake. It was nothing short of freaky.

14. Lesbian porn makes me cringe more than anything. Those long fingernails are just so painful to watch.

15. I'm afraid that if my girlfriend and I move in together, we will stop having sex. We will just go about our day, come home, eat, talk a little, then shuffle off to bed... where we will sleep. This thought terrifies me.

16. My first time was perfect. It's been nearly 2 years and I have never once had any regrets. She was sweet and gentle and made sure I wanted to continue. It was nothing I had expected and more than anything I had imagined.

17. I am very submissive. Most of the time when I turn the tables and become more dominant, it's just to feel her strength overpower my own.

18. A lot of times after receiving sex, I feel greedy but am too blissful and exhausted to worry.

19. I have never had sex with a man. Just kissing them felt wrong; I would always be thinking about laundry or school work or anything but the actual situation.

20. I don't lean more towards femme or butch girls when it comes to persona/ appearance, but I find that butch girls are usually more dominant... the way I like it.

21. One of my favorite parts about having sex with my girlfriend is how little noise she makes, so when she does make a sound, I know I'm doing something right.

22. I had the most mind-blowing sex tonight with my girlfriend. I didn't tell her it was that great. I always feel as if she won't believe me, especially considering how clichéd it sounds. But tonight definitely fell under the category of "mind-blowing."

23. I get extremely sleepy after sex.

24. For 1 million dollars most people would jump at an otherwise comparable sexual act, but I'm fairly sure that unless I was dying I would never give a man a blowjob for any amount of money.

25. I find the idea of "squirting" to be really interesting. I'm very skeptical for some reason and want to try it for myself to see how it works exactly.

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1. I am a 50 yr old straight female, happily married for 15 years with two children. I have had 10 (or so) sexual partners in my life and my husband is the best lover I have ever had. He also has the biggest penis I've ever fucked, and I have to say that size counts, in my experience.

2. I started playing with my clit when I was about 8 yrs old. I have a fairly large clit and I can remember trying to figure out (at 8) what it was for. I used an electric toothbrush as my first vibrator, and the tub filler was another favorite way to cum. I rubbed my clit and stuck all kinds of things into my vag.

3. My first boyfriend was in college. I was technically a virgin, but see #2. I faked orgasms many times with him, until I got a vibrator. He introduced me to porn, and we went to strip clubs together. I got birth control pills from the University.

4. The next 10 years were fun, with a series of boyfriends, but the sex was not great, just ok. I enjoyed masturbation more than fucking during this time. At 27 I got pregnant and had an abortion. Pretty traumatic, and I have since been very pro-choice and very vocal about it. After 10 yrs of mediocre sex, I was ready for something better.

5, I met my H on a blind date. I wanted to fuck him right then, but he made me wait. We finally had sex on our third date and I knew he was the one because he really took the time to play and suck my clit and he made me come over and over. He came 6 times that night. He had his own plug-in vibrator. He had porn magazines and video tapes. He was my dream!

6. I think about sex all the time and sometimes beg him for it. I love sucking his cock. I love watching him cum and I also love swallowing and licking it all up. I sometimes daydream about it while playing with my nipples and my clit.

7. He always makes sure I cum first, before he does. Always.

8. I still masturbate regularly. Sometimes twice a day. I use a mirror because watching my clit swell and throb turns me on even more. I use a Wahl 7 vibrator. It came with 7 attachments, but I just use one.

9. I love X Tube and X Hamster porn sites. Bookmark them and enjoy. Maybe someday I'll even send in a clip of us fucking. Or a clip of my clit doing its thing (a clit-clip?)

10. My next toy will be a butt plug. I love the feeling of something in my ass when I come. This is a fairly new discovery and I am excited to learn and do more.

11. Anal fucking can be absolutely amazing. When I'm really horny and turned on and his cock is lubed up from my cunt, and he goes in gently and slowly. Then I touch the vibe to my stiff and swollen clit...

12. I have never faked an orgasm with my H. Never.

13. We watch porn together, and share fantasies. He would like to have two women, and I would like to try two men.

14. My favorite porn is amateur, close ups, and both cocks and clits. I love watching huge dicks squirting lots and lots of cum. I hate watching a long vid and the guy comes maybe a squirt or two. No, I want to see the thick milky spurts of hot goo.

15. I also like watching women masturbate with real orgasms. I am constantly comparing my clit to the ones labeled "big" and I usually find mine is bigger. I would probably enjoy a piercing somewhere around it, one where I could feel it against my clit every time I moved or walked. But I am too chicken.

16. I am intrigued with clit pumping. I have used my vacuum cleaner hose so I have some idea of what it feels like. Not sure about it yet. Still doing the research.

17. I discovered recently that I can lick my own nipples. I would love to be able to suck on them. I love the clips of guys sucking their own cocks.

18. I wonder what it would be like to squirt. Just very messy, or a mind-blowing cum? I can't really tell from the porn I've seen if the orgasm is any better or just different.

19. My favorite position is 69 with me on top, then after we are both really turned on, I move to reverse cow-girl and ride his pole. This gives the vibe great access to my clit, and he can keep his fingers in my butt (unless his cock is there). The orgasm is always amazing.

20. Did I mention he always makes sure I come first? He says he loves the feeling of my orgasm on his cock--the spasms and contractions hugging his cock.

21. His big cock in my tight asshole is an incredible feeling, and when I come I can feel his cock so far up there. My most amazing orgasm EVER was when he was in my ass (see #19) and he had a few fingers in my vag, and the other hand was playing with my nipples and the vibe was on my rock-hard clit.

22. I also like to watch gay porn, especially when the guy on bottom has his dick in his hands and he comes while the guy on top is still going at him. I really love watching cocks explode with cum. It's such a turn-on to watch a guy stroke his cock.

23. I breast-fed my two kids, and there was definitely a sexual component to it. Plus my H enjoyed the taste too! And ever since, my nipples have become very sensitive. When they are sucked a lot, I feel it right down in my clit.

24. Recently I started shaving my vag and I really love the feeling of my bare lips rubbing against each other. Plus, I can see my clit better.

25. The best thing about sex is it's getting better and better as I get older. Menopause and hot flashes were a bit of a worry, but once past that it's just wonderful orgasms and making each other feel fantastic. And trying new things with each other keeps sex fresh and exciting.