Thursday, September 17, 2009

1. My first kiss was absolutely mindblowing. I was 12 and he was 16 and a pain in the ass. He kissed me by surprise and by force, because of a bet he made with a friend. He told me years after that he didn't realize I'd never kissed anyone before. I never felt anything for him. Except that he was the boy that made me discover my body. My sexuality. For about 5 years since then - until he met his actual fiancee - he taught me many things, but mostly theory, because he said I was too young to have sex. We were never in a relationship, just friends with benefits. I didn't mind. But sometimes I still think that he promised me he'll take me “all the way.” I secretly fantasize about him now and then.

2. I looooove to kiss. I'm so into kissing. I used to keep a list with boys I've kissed, but I threw it away when I reached 50. I do wonder what it would be like to kiss a certain person I see, but I never cheated on my boyfriend (we have been together almost 2 years) and I don't plan to.

3. I first masturbated at about 12. I don't remember much about that.

4. I first saw a penis in a magazine I found under my parents' bed. I thought it was disgusting. I first felt a real one through jeans, at 12. But it was not until my current boyfriend that I actually saw and touched one.

5. I decided I shouldn't believe any longer the Christian nonsense about not losing virginity on a Greek beach, at 14. He was a total stranger. But I stopped just before penetration, because it strucked me that my first time should be special. I changed my mind later. I ended up believing that the first time is just for learning.

6. I lost my virginity on the day I turned 18, with a boy I hardly knew and met by chance that day. Neither of us had planned it. We were both drunk. It was disappointing and I barely felt a thing - mostly pain than pleasure. I never regretted it, though, because my frustration had reached an alarming level, I just had to do it, to get my mind off of it.

7. I am thankful for the way I lost my virginity. I'm pretty sure I couldn't have done it sober and/or with a boy I felt something for, because I was frightened by the thought of being naked in front of somebody. I used to be extremely ashamed about my sexuality.

8. My boyfriend is the only (other) man I've had sex with. He's awesome. He's made me discover my true sexual potential and he's made me love my body. And his too.

9. I was terrified by the thought of him giving me head. Until he did and I saw how wonderful it can be.

10. I'm loud, I make a lot of noise, because I feel good and I want him to know that. But my boy is silent like a fish, though I told him that I had my biggest orgasm on the one time he talked to me during foreplay - telling me what he was going to do to me. I'd love him to give me some feedback. Audio feedback.

11. I really enjoy giving him blowjobs and handjobs, because I see how happy I can make him. I'm not sure I'm very good at it, even if he told me I was great. I'd like to learn how to deep-throat, but I'm ashamed to tell him that. I'd also like to swallow. But he always cums on my tits, even if I try to keep him in my mouth. I've tried suggesting him to cum IN, but he didn't and I'm ashamed of telling him again.

12. My favourite position is doggy-style and his is me on top. I try to please him and do it like that but it often doesn't do anything to me - when that happens, I tell him it hurts and we change. It doesn't. I just don't enjoy it.

13. I'm not into anal sex. I guess he would like us to try, but I don't want to. I'd experience every thing and position - except that.

14. I don't find 69 interesting at all. It's too... multi-tasking, which makes it hard to concentrate and my mood vanishes. I'd rather give him an awesome blowjob instead. But we do it sometimes, because I know he likes seeing me from every angle.

15. I find it extremely hot when he cums on me.

16. I faked it. A few times. But only because he really wants me to be pleased and he's so sorry he has an orgasm every time and I don't.

17. I felt so proud of myself when he told me he's had two orgasms without ejaculating - it was a BJ that caused him that. I'd like him to tell me what he'd like me to do to him, but I guess he thinks he'd hurt my feelings if he'd talk about sex as a purely physical thing. He wouldn't. I'm too much a sexual being for that. I'd like him to know that without considering it dirty.

18. I would sometimes like some spanking or him talking dirty or even some domination and submission... But when I tried bringing that up, he told me that he wants to make love to me, not only sex. Yes, I like that too, but I'm into spicy things too.

19. I sometimes fantasize about having sex with a woman.

20. When he tells and/or shows me that he really wants me, it makes me insanely hot. I could have explosive orgasms if he'd tell me “I want you right now” and undress me violently. And with me so hot, he certainly wouldn't be sorry.

21. I only masturbate for my boyfriend's pleasure. Otherwise, I don't feel the need to. I like it so much better when he does it to me - by intercourse, cunnilingus or fingering me, does not matter, as long as it is him. I like him so much that I get chills on my back when he touches me.

22. It excites me so much when he rubs, licks, bites, does anything with my breasts. I want his hands on them 24/7.

23. Having sex in strange places makes me so hot! The strangest 'til now was in the woods.

24. For me, love and sex are so connected, that I don't think about one without the other anymore.

25. I'm highly sexual. And I'm so glad me and my boyfriend are just the same when it comes to this. I like having sex. I like everything about sex.
1. I am a 50 yr old straight female, happily married for 15 years with two children. I have had 10 (or so) sexual partners in my life and my husband is the best lover I have ever had. He also has the biggest penis I've ever fucked, and I have to say that size counts, in my experience.

2. I started playing with my clit when I was about 8 yrs old. I have a fairly large clit and I can remember trying to figure out (at 8) what it was for. I used an electric toothbrush as my first vibrator, and the tub filler was another favorite way to cum. I rubbed my clit and stuck all kinds of things into my vag.

3. My first boyfriend was in college. I was technically a virgin, but see #2. I faked orgasms many times with him, until I got a vibrator. He introduced me to porn, and we went to strip clubs together. I got birth control pills from the University.

4. The next 10 years were fun, with a series of boyfriends, but the sex was not great, just ok. I enjoyed masturbation more than fucking during this time. At 27 I got pregnant and had an abortion. Pretty traumatic, and I have since been very pro-choice and very vocal about it. After 10 yrs of mediocre sex, I was ready for something better.

5, I met my H on a blind date. I wanted to fuck him right then, but he made me wait. We finally had sex on our third date and I knew he was the one because he really took the time to play and suck my clit and he made me come over and over. He came 6 times that night. He had his own plug-in vibrator. He had porn magazines and video tapes. He was my dream!

6. I think about sex all the time and sometimes beg him for it. I love sucking his cock. I love watching him cum and I also love swallowing and licking it all up. I sometimes daydream about it while playing with my nipples and my clit.

7. He always makes sure I cum first, before he does. Always.

8. I still masturbate regularly. Sometimes twice a day. I use a mirror because watching my clit swell and throb turns me on even more. I use a Wahl 7 vibrator. It came with 7 attachments, but I just use one.

9. I love X Tube and X Hamster porn sites. Bookmark them and enjoy. Maybe someday I'll even send in a clip of us fucking. Or a clip of my clit doing its thing (a clit-clip?)

10. My next toy will be a butt plug. I love the feeling of something in my ass when I come. This is a fairly new discovery and I am excited to learn and do more.

11. Anal fucking can be absolutely amazing. When I'm really horny and turned on and his cock is lubed up from my cunt, and he goes in gently and slowly. Then I touch the vibe to my stiff and swollen clit...

12. I have never faked an orgasm with my H. Never.

13. We watch porn together, and share fantasies. He would like to have two women, and I would like to try two men.

14. My favorite porn is amateur, close ups, and both cocks and clits. I love watching huge dicks squirting lots and lots of cum. I hate watching a long vid and the guy comes maybe a squirt or two. No, I want to see the thick milky spurts of hot goo.

15. I also like watching women masturbate with real orgasms. I am constantly comparing my clit to the ones labeled "big" and I usually find mine is bigger. I would probably enjoy a piercing somewhere around it, one where I could feel it against my clit every time I moved or walked. But I am too chicken.

16. I am intrigued with clit pumping. I have used my vacuum cleaner hose so I have some idea of what it feels like. Not sure about it yet. Still doing the research.

17. I discovered recently that I can lick my own nipples. I would love to be able to suck on them. I love the clips of guys sucking their own cocks.

18. I wonder what it would be like to squirt. Just very messy, or a mind-blowing cum? I can't really tell from the porn I've seen if the orgasm is any better or just different.

19. My favorite position is 69 with me on top, then after we are both really turned on, I move to reverse cow-girl and ride his pole. This gives the vibe great access to my clit, and he can keep his fingers in my butt (unless his cock is there). The orgasm is always amazing.

20. Did I mention he always makes sure I come first? He says he loves the feeling of my orgasm on his cock--the spasms and contractions hugging his cock.

21. His big cock in my tight asshole is an incredible feeling, and when I come I can feel his cock so far up there. My most amazing orgasm EVER was when he was in my ass (see #19) and he had a few fingers in my vag, and the other hand was playing with my nipples and the vibe was on my rock-hard clit.

22. I also like to watch gay porn, especially when the guy on bottom has his dick in his hands and he comes while the guy on top is still going at him. I really love watching cocks explode with cum. It's such a turn-on to watch a guy stroke his cock.

23. I breast-fed my two kids, and there was definitely a sexual component to it. Plus my H enjoyed the taste too! And ever since, my nipples have become very sensitive. When they are sucked a lot, I feel it right down in my clit.

24. Recently I started shaving my vag and I really love the feeling of my bare lips rubbing against each other. Plus, I can see my clit better.

25. The best thing about sex is it's getting better and better as I get older. Menopause and hot flashes were a bit of a worry, but once past that it's just wonderful orgasms and making each other feel fantastic. And trying new things with each other keeps sex fresh and exciting.