Monday, September 13, 2010

1. I'm a 22-year-old genderqueer dyke. I've had sex with 8 people in my life.

2. My favorite thing in the entire world is giving/getting head. I could do it, and recieve it, for HOURS. Sticky eyelids are the best.

3. I've orgasmed during sex only 3 times in my life. It takes a lot of patience to make it happen, since you have to lick a certain spot a certain way for a certain amount of time. I haven't orgasmed during partner sex in over 4 years, but that's okay with me. Orgasm is never my goal.

4. I masturbate by rubbing my clit through my underwear. I figured out that's the way I liked it when I was 13 and haven't really switched it up since. I love to touch myself while someone's watching, but when doing that I take off the underwear (obviously).

5. I love, love, LOVE FTMs. I had sex with my FTM friend when I was 18 and it was ridiculously hot. Something about how I could eat him out and then he could strap on a dick and fuck me with it ... amazing. My last ex started taking T and I wish we hadn't broken up before it really started to change his body.

6. I cut myself to help me get off. Something about the sight of blood really turns me on. If I'm really comfortable with the person I'm with (really, REALLY comfortable), I let them lick my blood up. I can't even describe how much it turns me on.

7. I have no complaints whatsoever about losing my virginity. I was in love with the girl I was dating, she took her time and really listened to my body, was very open to what she wanted, and made me waffles afterward. Such good memories associated with that day.

8. The woman I'm seeing right now is insecure about her body, so we haven't yet gotten to the point where she'll let me fuck her. I want to say that I feel bad about being the only one being fucked, but honestly, I enjoy it immensely. She introduced me to breath play during sex, and I can't get enough of it now. She's also, hands down, the absolute BEST at oral.

9. I consider myself fairly kinky, but I haven't yet explored fisting, spanking/caning/etc, or play piercing, and I want to ... SOON.

10. I shave everything "down there", and don't think I could ever go back to any amount of hair. I like it on my partners, though.

11. My favorite part of a woman's body (besides the obvious - cunt) is the lower back or clavicle.

12. I love to bite, and especially love to leave bruises. I never leave hickeys on the neck, but everywhere else is fair game. Sticky-outy bones are my weakness ... my current girl has many fading marks on her hipbones, clavicle, and the bottom of her ribcage. I love bones. Mmmm.

13. I've never had sex with a biological male, but am not opposed to the idea. I fall in lust/love with people, not gender/bodies, so perhaps one day it will happen. I have masturbated to the idea of a (real!) penis in me before, which was hard to let myself do, but now I'm open to the fact.

14. I tell everyone I don't like porn, but I secretly watch videos on a few sites. I'm too embarassed to go out and buy porn, and I don't know when/if I'll ever get over that, so for now, erotica and free vids on those websites will have to suffice.

15. I love reading about LGBT, group, and non-consensual sex (both hetero and homo), but can only bring myself to watch girls fucking.

16. I love the idea of eating a girl out who's on her period. I've done it once before and I enjoyed it a lot. I have never mentioned it to anyone I've had sex with since, because most girls I've encountered think earning your "red wings" is "dirty." I like the taste, smell, and feel of it, myself.

17. I was never open to the idea of group sex until my last ex and I broke up, and I started reading group sex erotica. I don't know how the dynamics of it would work, but I would love to try it at least once... ideally with two other women.

18. My nipples aren't very sensitive, but I let them be played with if the other person likes it. My right nipple is pierced and I'm planning to get the other one done soon to make everything even.

19. I love when marks are left on me. Nothing makes me happier then waking up the next morning and checking myself out in the mirror and seeing nail marks all down my back and bruises decorating my chest and hipbones.

20. I get really, really bad charlie horses in my right foot if I'm having really awesome, intense sex. I've learned to just push past the pain and deal with it, but they are ridiculously annoying.

21. I don't have good stamina for fingering, and I need to work on that. I love the feeling of being inside someone but get tired way too easily. I'd also like to learn how to properly fuck someone with a strap-on ... I've had great experiences on the recieving end and would like to be able to return the favor.

22. I love to be told what to do. I love being strapped down to the bed with someone over me, calling me names. The first time my current girl told me to shut the fuck up, I knew I was going to fight it so she would say it again. I get so wet being yelled at.

23. I bought my first vibrator about 6 months ago and have used it a handful of times. My fingers just work so much better for me ... and they're wayyyy cheaper.

24. I love the way I taste. I also love, after fingering someone, to suck my fingers off while they watch. Every single person I've done that with has loved it, and most of them have said they'd never seen anyone do that before.

25. Nibbling on the lower lip while making out is my favorite. I was recently told that I don't "share" my bottom lip (it's pierced), and I've been trying to be nicer about that. The sound of my metal (in my lip, ears, navel, tongue, and nipple) clicking against teeth is such an intense turn-on.