Monday, August 23, 2010

1 . I'm 32, female. I'm married to a man but I like women too.

2 . I don't like to call myself bisexual. I think sometimes labels are too rigid and I don't feel comfortable with them.

3 . Maybe a reason for #2 is that I have never been in love with a woman. I like to have sex with both women and men, but I don’t think I'm capable of having a serious relationship with a female.

4 . Another possible reason is that I don't enjoy being with a woman as much as I do with a man. I don't know if this is because I'm not that into women, or I just haven't found the right female partner yet.

5 . My husband and I are swingers. I love the idea of sharing intimacy with other people, without the classic commitment of a romantic relationship. It's refreshing, and at the same time it feels like going home. I think we all need physical, erotic contact to feel alive. And I can't find a reason to limit that to a monogamous partnership. I've thought this way since I can remember, which caused me some trouble in the past.

6 . Despite #5, I understand and respect other ways to be in a relationship; I don't even know if I'll like to swing until I die. For now, it just works for me.

7 . Polyamory sounds interesting to me, too. I've recently got into a 'friend-with-benefits' relationship. It just happened. He is a very good friend of us, and I've been always sexually attracted to him. I talked about it with my husband, and with my friend, of course. We decided to give it a shot, and it was awesome. We fuck with love. Now I'm in love with two people, and I feel my heart has expanded. Again, I don't know if this will last till death do us part, but for now it feels great.

8 . My first time was with my cousin, at the age of 16. He was 18. We had been in an on-off relationship since I was 12. He was my first love, and although it wasn't sexually 'good', it felt natural and I remember it as a beautiful moment. We didn't have sex again. I think he was just in the right time and right place to share my sexual awakening, and I'm thankful for that.

9 . I've masturbated since I was 8 or 9. But I didn't find my clit until I was 12. Before that, I just loved to touch myself, mostly my butt, my legs and my belly. When I finally discovered my clit and vagina, I was amazed. I had my first orgasm that same day, and I couldn't believe all that pleasure was inside of me.

10 . Now I like to masturbate using basically my fingers on my clit. Sometimes I use a vibrator ring. I usually fantasize about threesomes or group sex while I'm doing it.

11 . I love oral sex. Giving and receiving it. I love the feeling of a hard cock in my mouth; the taste, the texture of the skin, and the sounds my partner makes while I'm down there. I like to do it slowly, playing with my tongue while we are in foreplay, and I also like to do it fast,
just to make him cum.

12 . I don't have much experience in giving oral to a woman yet, but I expect to learn quickly.

13 . I've recently found out I love anal sex. Before that, I used to do it just to make my partner happy. Now I enjoy it very much. It's not always on the menu, though. I have to be in the right mood--incredibly horny.

14 . Even if I'm not going to have anal sex, I love to get my anus stimulated. My favourite position is doggy-style, with my fingers on my clit and my husband's in my ass.

15 . Most of the time, if I'm having sex in the missionary position, I need to fantasize I'm being raped in order to come.

16 . That doesn't mean I like being humiliated or forced in any way. I just get excited about the idea of passiveness and not being in control.

17 . I like some pain too. Spanking, biting, pulling hair... I like the feeling of being dominated. But I only let this happen if I trust my partner 100%. This means, my husband and my friend in #7.

18 . Porn is mostly something that just makes me laugh or bored. But sometimes, if the scene is not too false, the actors and actresses are nice and the script is not too obvious, I enjoy it and even get turned on by it.

19 . On the other hand, I love reading porn. There's something about XXX stories that makes my imagination fly. I guess this shows, one more time, that the brain is the most important sexual organ.

20 . My deepest and darkest fantasy is to be a sex slave, and to be offered by my master to all his friends. But the idea scares me as well. Maybe it'll never happen.

21 . I sometimes fantasize about being in a dom role too, mostly with a woman. I like the idea, but I guess I don't have the energy. My character tends to be passive.

22 . Sex with children, animals, or with any person whom I'm not entirely sure has consented to have sex, is simply off limits to me.

23 . I don't like peeing either.

24 . I don't have any fetishes.

25 . Although my last 3 things have been dislikes, I think it is pretty obvious I love sex!