Thursday, October 29, 2009

1) Much of my early sexual education came from books like The Sensuous Woman, Thy Neighbor’s Wife and Hollywood Wives.

2) I lost my virginity shortly after my 21st birthday to a prostitute in a whorehouse a couple hours outside of Las Vegas.

3) I didn’t understand what was happening when I masturbated for the first time; it disturbed me quite a bit, and I felt some guilt. I didn’t expect the semen, and there was a lot of it.

4) I have masturbated regularly more or less ever since.

5) The guilt finally went all the way away in my mid to late twenties. This had a lot to do with my discovery of Henry Miller.

6) I really like women in fun lingerie, probably because I spent so much time looking at lingerie catalogs before I could get porn.

7) I went to my first strip club when I was 18, and have loved them ever since. They are fun treats that I indulge in a few times a year, depending on circumstances.

8) My first butt plug was a little too large and I had the wrong kind of lube. I still enjoyed playing with it, but I soon bought correct lube and eventually wound up with a small collection of butt toys.

9) I enjoy phone sex quite a bit, but I have to be in the right mood. It’s tricky to find the right match to maximize the experience. Like strip clubs, phone sex is a fun treat that I indulge in occasionally.

10) I have masturbated in port-a-potties, an M1A1 battle tank, and in peep show booths.

11) My (now) wife and I had sex for the first time on our third date. Doesn’t everyone?

12) I enjoy getting fucked in the ass with a dildo, butt-plug or fingers. It’s not an everyday activity.

13) Receiving oral sex is one of my favorite things in the world. Lucky for me, my wife enjoys, and is quite good at, giving.

14) My wife and I did have sex in an airport motel room the night of our wedding. Half-drunk as we were, it was great.

15) We were monogamous for the first six years of our relationship, but became polyamorous about a year ago.

16) I tend to define sex to include oral / genital play; it’s an arbitrary definition.

17) I’ve had group sex one time. It was with my wife, her boyfriend (at his birthday party) and two other women that he introduced us to. It was an amazing experience that I hope to repeat. The group of us should have talked about things more in advance, such as STD risks and whatnot, but I have no significant regrets.

18) I sometimes fantasize about playing directly with another man sexually. I’m especially interested in sucking cock. I’m not really interested in making out with another man, and I can’t see myself "dating" one. I comfortably identify as "straight."

19) I’ve come to really enjoy giving spankings, floggings and paddlings.

20) Sometimes, I like to be spanked myself. I like sharp, stingy ones more than deep thuddy ones; I think that’s because I’m a fairly skinny fella.

21) I have a girlfriend who I regularly have sex with in addition to my wife. I typically get laid 3 or 4 times per week.

22) I still enjoy masturbating by myself, but I don’t have time or energy to do it often. I’m lucky to do it once per week.

23) I don’t understand how guys can have sex more than once per day for many days at a time. My cock gets sore from the friction around the second time.

24) I’d like to play with a dominatrix; while I don’t want to be humiliated, I think I would enjoy being told what to do.

25) I really like to watch. I like to watch my partner and me in a mirror when I’m having sex, I like watching strippers, when I was in college, I used to peek out my bedroom window and watch folks in the apartments a block away.