Saturday, December 11, 2010

1. I am a 25-year-old bisexual woman who is recently single after a 5 1/2 year long relationship with a man. We lived together for almost the entire duration of that time and were engaged for 4 of those years.

2. My ex is my first and only serious relationship, as I met him when I was 19 and had just moved away from home and my home country. Before that I had had a 7-month relationship with a girl that I adored, and a series of short flings and one night stands.

3. When I met my ex he had really long hair, and that turned me on something rotten. I have always LOVED men with long hair, and there's something special about a man with long hair going down on you, I love all that hair all over my body, and especially like to tousle my fingers into it when they lick me. The wilder, longer and thicker the hair the sexier. My ex cut his hair after a few years, and even though I was OK with it, I did miss it a lot.

4. I have recently realized I really like mustaches. From thinking they were pretty off-putting, I suddenly find them incredibly sexy! I also find it hilarious when men with mustaches or beards go down on you and come up with wet facial hair which smells heavenly of fanny!

5. When I was in my long relationship, I had periods of liking sex a LOT and periods of not really being fussed. When we met we fucked like rabbits, all the time, everywhere and in all kinds of positions. We were extremely compatible and always wanted sex at the same time. That changed some time into our relationship, and my sex drive decreased MASSIVELY. I had a long period when I didn't feel good about myself and was almost never horny. This caused a lot of problems as my partner was feeling inadequate and unsexy, and was worried that I didn't get turned on by him anymore. Which made me have sex with him because I loved him and didn't want him to feel bad. He obviously noticed that I wasn't really that into it but just did it to please him, which made him even more upset and worried. It was a difficult time, but luckily we managed to keep a dialogue and work through it.

6. I have only licked one girl's fanny, but really want to do it again. I was really drunk when I did it but I really fancied this girl, and she fancied me, so it was a fun experience. She tasted good and I enjoyed being naked with a woman, but I didn't really get that turned on when she returned the favor. I think this was just down to her not being very good.

7. I love women and have 'known' since I was about 13 that I was bisexual (without knowing that term at the time). The first time I properly fell in love with a girl was first year in high school, at the age of 13. She was a friend of a friend and used to be in my arts class, and I used to look at her during the entire class and think about how beautiful she was. This was very confusing and I never told anyone or wrote about it in my diary.

8. After becoming single recently I have become incredibly horny and have had more sex partners in 5 months than I had during my first 7 years of being sexually active. I love having one night stands, and love that I can take on a different 'persona' with someone I don't know, and just be as dirty as I like 'cause I will never see them again

9. My last year in high school (age 16) I saw this girl in the first year (age 14) who made a very big impression on me. It started off with me being very annoyed with her, as everyone kept saying she looked like a mini copy of me, she wore similar clothes, had similar hair, etc. This annoyed me a lot as I had (or thought I had) a very alternative style, and thrived on being different. After a while she started interesting me instead, and I noticed that she was looking at me a lot. I used to be in the cafeteria or the library and I could feel a look on the back of my neck, and turning around she was always there. So we started having lingering eye contact over crowded spaces and faraway distances. I started noticing small things about her, that she had a scar on her hand, that she favoured long scarves, that she had the cutest giggle, that she walked with a lot of purpose in her steps. After eye contact and fantasies about her for more than half a year I decided to do something about it in the last month before leaving high school, so one late night after spending hours with my friend talking endlessly about her I texted her, saying something like "I have seen you around and think you are very cute... and don't faint now, but I'm a girl." I almost crapped my pants with anxiety and nervousness. Next morning I had a reply, she said thanks and that she thinks she knows who I am, and if she is right she thinks I'm cute too! I was ecstatic! This led to a series of texts, developing into us saying hi to each other in school, and then a 'coffee date' one week into our summer holiday. After that we met as often as we could, talked for hours, listened to music and kissed. It was one of the loveliest summers and autumns of my life. So sweet, so innocent, but so much love and tenderness.

10. I used to not like going down on men, but I quite like it these days. I won't do it unless I get favours returned, though. I get really pissed off with men who don't go down on me, as I think this is common bed courtesy, especially if you have gone down on him already. I have only had this once with a one-night stand (which also was the worst sex experience of my life) and it made me super pissed off.

11. I usually get horny at random times when I really need to concentrate, such as when I'm supposed to write an essay, and just have to take my clothes off and jump into my bed and get my rabbit out. My rabbit lives in my knicker drawer and is one of my most treasured belongings. It can take me to the moon and back every time. Foolproof satisfaction.

12. I don't enjoy vanilla sex with one night stands. Vanilla can be nice and beautiful with someone you love, but right now I want fucking, not making love, and vanilla bores me. I met this gorgeous gorgeous man, tall, skinny, funny, sexy, and with a mane like a lion (Looooong, curly and reddish brown) and was so incredibly turned on by him. Took him home after a few hours of bar-hopping, and literally had to pounce on him like a tiger to get some action. Nothing wrong with that, I don't mind initiative, but he was the softest and most gentle man in bed I have EVER met, and I just wanted to shout 'BITE ME, PULL MY HAIR, FUCK ME HARDER!' throughout the sex. It wasn't bad sex though, as he could go on for a long time, and also start again straight after coming, so we had sex quite a few times in a row and I climaxed the last time (LOUDLY). He did not say a word. He came three times, but hardly even sighed as he came! I found his quietness very unsettling, and drunk as I was I told him he was the quietest man I'd ever been with. I think he may have taken it as an insult.

13. I find very different things attractive in men and women, but I like androgyny in both men and women. I like my boys pretty, skinny and with long hair, and I love my girls hard, sleek and masculine without being butchy. And I do love a girl with a shaved head. I find paleness extremely alluring, and there are few things sexier than a freckly shoulder or back.

14. I have a tendency when coming home drunk and alone to think that playing with myself would be a good idea. I usually get bored half way and wake up the next morning feeling like death with the dildo between my thighs. It has happened more than one time.

15. I used to think about sex all the time when I was a teenager, and could not wait to have my first sexual experience. However, I didn't end up losing my virginity until I was 18. It wasn't by choice or because I wanted to wait, but more like I took the first boy that came along and wanted to have sex with me.

16. The first guy I slept with (#15) was Italian. He was not my type but pretty sexy in a traditional macho way (which has never really appealed to me). We met at a foam party (how tacky) and kissed and groped each other in the foam for hours. At the end of the night, he asked for my number, and we met the next day for pizza and then drove to a beach nearby where we kissed and fooled around on the jetty for about an hour, before going to his parent's car and having sex in the car in the parking lot. It was not the most comfortable, and not the sexiest, but not a terrible experience either. I still remember which knickers I wore. The best bit was having a cigarette afterward in the autumn chill and he lent me his huge leather jacket which smelled of smoke and aftershave. The best after-sex cigarette I have ever had.

17. I later got to know that the guy mentioned in #10 never goes down on girls as it 'makes him gag' !?! Seriously???! He was the most terrible sex partner I have ever had, and he did NOT know what to do to a woman! I seriously had to TAKE his hand, place it on my clit and say 'that's what you have to concentrate on if you want some action'! He still didn't manage to make it interesting or pleasurable in the slightest.

18. I don't really like porn and never watch it, but I love reading sex novels, they turn me on something rotten! I especially enjoy reading ones that include bondage, dominance and submission and SM. I am not sure if I'm very into it in real life, but I like fantasizing about it.

19. Biting is my passion, and I cannot have sex without biting. I try to tailor the power of my bite to the person I'm with, if they like it I go a bit wild, if they seem a bit scared I go a bit softer, but sometimes I can't help myself from having a great big chomp into a nice juicy body part. I have this booty-call shag buddy that I've seen about four or five times, and last time he was around he was lying on my bed after sex, on his belly, and I came back to the bed after getting a glass of water. Seeing that pretty, plump, juicy ass I jumped on top of him and sank my teeth into his buttcheek pretty hard.The poor guy did NOT see that coming and actually screamed in pain and shock! I felt a little bad afterward, but also enjoyed the bite too much to be too embarrassed.

20. I refuse to have sex without condoms with one night stands, and have twice been in situations (both times very drunk) where a guy would not or could not use a condom. I refused to have sex both times, which I am proud about. We did other stuff instead. I think my body and health is more important than the risk of getting STD's (I'm not worried about getting pregnant as I have a coil anyway).

21. I actually love the taste of my fanny, and have had several men comment on how good I taste (and smell). I like men who give my fanny compliments. Two guys in particular (both Aussie, wonder if it's a coincidence?...) made very explicit and sincere comments in the middle of giving me oral sex about how amazing my fanny was, to then dive down again and continue their 'work' with even more passion. I especially liked that one of the guys called it my 'puss', not pussy, but 'puss'--it was kinda cute and made me laugh. I love being able to laugh during and about sex.

22. I talk a lot and explicitly about sex, as I enjoy sex and think sex is a natural and wonderful thing in our lives. My good friends are the same and are used to it, but when I meet new people they are quite often shocked by how graphic I can be, which slightly amuses me. I think that as long as sex is consensual and does not involve any parties being hurt (unless they want to) I cannot see any harm in any type of sexual activity. As long as there is mutual respect people can and should experiment and do whatever turns them on. And it if doesn't turn you on, tell the other person so, and stop doing it! Never do anything which feels wrong or doesn't turn you on, it will make you feel shitty at some point.

23. I am still dreaming of having an adult, proper relationship with a woman, and hope that I will meet a woman at some stage of my life with whom I can settle down. I have always thought that if I would be in a long-term relationship it would be with a woman, but then along came my ex and swooped me off my feet, and now five years later I am single again. I enjoy the different relationship you have with a woman compared to a man, and I generally feel that I can be 'myself' more completely among women.

24. I love being naked, and I love being watched when I am naked. I am very comfortable about my body and am very bound by my senses, and thus love to look, smell, feel and touch a naked body. The same with my own. Preferably I will get naked as soon as I come home with someone, and then spend a long time exploring each other. I also really like early mornings with a one-night stand, and applying body lotion slowly all over my body when I know they are watching while pretending to be asleep. I get uncomfortable with things like stripping and sexy dancing, but being naturally naked is the best and sexiest thing I know. One particular time I remember well was sitting on a guy's glass dinner table, at 6 o 'clock in the morning, naked except a pair of fishnet stay-up stockings, blowing smoke out of the window and drinking vodka out of a bottle. My makeup was all over my face and my hair was sex-messy. Then we had some more sex.

25. I don't generally have very sensitive nipples, but when someone bites them hard during a hard fuck that can make me climax by itself. I love the sensation of pain mingling with the sweet sensation of orgasm.