1. The first time I ever masturbated I was afraid. It felt so good, but as I approached climax, the intensity scared me and I stopped. The book "Everything you Ever Wanted to Know About Sex.. But Were Afraid To Ask" said this is what you do... It felt so good but it burned, sort of. I thought I hurt myself.
2. I love the look, the smell, the taste and the elaborate-ness of the female vulva. It makes the dick seem - well, boring. There is nothing more intimate than orally pleasing a woman - even intercourse is LESS intimate.
3. I first made out, like a lot of people, in the back set of my dad's huge car. My girlfriend was a bit on the large size but had big, beautiful breasts. I still recall seeing them for the first time, and how, in the winter, we steamed up the car windows. I also tasted pussy and got a blow job for the first time there.
4. I made love to that same girlfriend for the first time at her parents cabin. Her parents were out with friends, and her little brother was sleeping (I think... I hope) right above us in a loft. I was still partly clothed because we were afraid parents would come back. I was inside her (with a condom) but I thought I heard something, and pulled out and we stopped... it was nothing. I ruined my condom, our first time, and the sex we were having. Damn!
5. I made it up to her when we got back - I got a 12 pack of LifeStyles Ultra Thins and we made love after school. We went all the way and it was awesome.
6. Another girlfriend and I made love in semi-public places; a dorm study room with the door closed, and between semesters in an open floor lounge. I know it was between semesters, but someone COULD have come in. It was great having clothes everywhere and doing 69, knowing you could be caught!
7. When I was 12 or 13, a male friend was talking to some girls in his house and I guess was horny. He said "I need to talk to you" and we went to his room - I walked in first. When I turned around, he had blocked the door, undone his pants and pulled out his erection and was stroking it. I was shocked, partly because he was huge (I was two crucial years younger - big difference) and had pubes (I did not yet...) but he gave me no warning. I mean - if he had said "have you ever jacked off? I'm really horny and my parents are gone - do you want to?" I might have said yes. I was so shocked, though, that he put it away and we left the room.
8. I like (discreetly) looking at nude guys in the locker room - I think everyone does, but most won't admit it.
9. In high school, I ran track with this one guy. He was a red head. In the shower I saw he also had bright red pubic hair.
10. Though it almost never happens, I have "faked" orgasm a few times... I can do this because I wear condoms.
11. I have only ONCE been inside a vagina WITHOUT a condom. My girlfriend and I were swimming, and no one was at my house. We took off our bathing suits, then got in each other's arms and made out. I was so hard! The next thing I knew I was inside her. GOD, was it nice... I thrusted gently a few times, then pulled out.
12. On a scale of 1 to 9, 1 being completely straight, not even vague fantasies, and 9 totally homosexual, I am a 3... or 4.
13. Until I saw YouPorn, I figured the "wet spot" was from sweat (which I guess it could be) - now I know it's from semen coming back out of the vagina and getting all over the bed. Oh, now I get it!
14. I know of a gay bathhouse in my town... I have always wanted to go in. Not to DO anyone, just sit in the steam room, watch the action, jack off and then leave.
15. I am married and my sex life sucks. I have not had sex in a year. She won't let me eat her (oral sex), and I don't know why. I am afraid to talk to her about it.
16. Until 14 years ago I had full pubes. Now my balls are shaved, my inner thighs, my butt crack and the area below my navel. All I have now is a small patch of full pubes above my cock and the hair that goes up to my navel. That's it. I love it and so does my wife.
17. I had same-sex sex (oral only) once or twice, with the same person. I was comfortable with him, and he said OK when I asked if I could. I was just curious... if you're a woman, what did a dick feel like in your mouth? What were women going through? I undressed him and made out with him - the biggest surprises were 1) his height, 2) his stubble 3) his narrow hips, 4) the smell of cologne, 5) his broad shoulders and 6) no smell of makeup, perfume, lipstick.
At first I was freaked out - THIS WAS A GUY! - but then relaxed. It took some courage to undo his belt, and he said "look, don't worry - we don't have to", but I was curious. Eventually I did, we stripped each others' underwear. That was one of the hottest few minutes in my life.
Oh, his erection? Really, not a shock - standard in size, girth, length etc. His crotch smelled sweaty, and his penis in my mouth felt like mine does in my hand. Actually it was all kind of a let-down, except the stripping and making out part. That was really hot. By the way I was really drunk.
18. I would easily do a threesome for my wife that was MMF - or MMMF for that matter. I don't care - as long she lets me have MFF...
19. I have toys and play with my prostate. I have had dozens of orgasms with them. The prostate is the man's G-spot. It is a GREAT and very different orgasm. TRY IT!
20. I would like to get into spanking/BDSM - a little.
21. I would also do voyeur/exhibitionism stuff too. I would be happy to watch my wife do someone and I could only j/o. Of course, she would have to do that for me too.
22. I would like to go to a nudist resort for a weekend.
23. I would gladly go to an erotic/swingers party with my wife, but she would never do it. I wish she would.
24. I have had only 4 lovers in my life.
25. Out of 4 lovers, 3 have been virgins (believe me, you can tell when you break them). What is it about me that attracts virgins?
Sunday, January 10, 2010
1. I've been wanting to write this list for ages but have only now gathered the courage to do so. It's one of my secret New Year's goals.
2. I'm 19 years old and still a virgin. It's funny because I do not fit the sterotypes for a virgin at all; I'm not religious nor asexual. I consider myself to be outgoing (in most situations), fun and attractive (albeit slightly curvy) and I'm smart too. I don't tend to put myself out there when I'm at parties because now that I've waited this long, I don't feel like it should be blown on some random fuck at a party. It's not like I want to be married or even wait until I know that the person is "the one" but I at least want some sort of connection before I engage in that sort of activity.
3. The thing is, is that those types of connections aren't happening in my life. I can't say that I've ever had a real boyfriend which would probably boggle your mind if you knew me in real life. I think a combination of certain factors contributes to my lack of love life, which includes: moving around (which makes it hard to make friends let alone a boyfriend), being branded a lesbian/feminist in highschool, my lack of self-confidence, my shyness around boys that I like a lot and my strong independence which tends to scare most guys away.
4. When people find out that I don't have a boyfriend they are genuinely surprised and that pisses me off even more because I really do not know what it is that I'm doing wrong. It's not that some boys aren't interested it's just that I never like them enough to follow through with a relationship. I think that deep down, I'm scared of relationships and letting people into my world. I trick myself into thinking that I'm ready for a relationship but when the opportunity comes knocking, I run away.
5. When I was in middle school I had little crushes on many boys in my grade. One boy in particular caught my attention and we would sometimes talk on the phone and have "phone sex" (if you can even call it that). Once, at a birthday party, we were dared to "go into the shower" and do all sorts of things, and my friend at the time got jealous and began to cry. She was thinner than me and this is when I began to develop my body issues. She once told me that I had a flat bum and it's influenced me ever since.
6. I don't consider myself a lesbian but most of my sexual experiences have happened with females. Towards the end of middle school I had a friend and we would experiment with each other. I loved the feelings that I got but I never enjoyed the kissing part. Fast-forward to my last year of highschool when I made out with a guy and I still did not enjoy the kissing.
7. In most ways, I am more afraid of actually kissing than I am of, say, giving head. I think that maybe kissing implies a closer connection than simply getting someone off.
8. Since I haven't had a boyfriend, I've learned to rely on myself. Sexually speaking, I am very comfortable talking about masturbation with my friends. I think that pleasure is so beautiful and I'm happy to know that I've explored my body so that I know what types of things that I respond to. I'm not drawn to anything that is crude or explicit; I become easily turned off by anything "hardcore." While watching porn, I like to see natural images and a genuine enjoyment in the union of two people.
9. Like I said before, I don't consider myself a lesbian but I am drawn to lesbain porn. Perhaps this means that I am a lesbian? Who even knows? My best friend once said "You will be with someone who you feel a connection with, be it a man or woman." I remember feeling peaceful after he said that. Since I haven't had any real boyfriends, my mom thinks I'm a lesbian. I know that she would probably be okay with it but I think that I would know if I was a lesbian or not.
10. Perhaps I just won't define myself. I think that maybe I should just live my life and not care about whether someone is a man or a woman.
11. I have so much to learn about myself. It's exciting to know that I have this whole side of me that I get to explore one day.
12. This summer while traveling, I saw two women who were beautiful and confident. They were together and I've thought about them ever since. I could be in a relationship like that... but the sterotypical "butch" woman wouldn't be for me.
13. Now that I'm thinking about it, I'm always attracted to a more "feminine" male. At my work there is a 17 year-old male who I am so attracted to. His face is so beautiful and his demeanor is so soft and calm, and recently I've felt his energy combine with my own. I feel so horrible for even thinking this way seeing as he is so young.
14. Over the past few months I've been feeling myself transform my mind and body to become more comfortable in my skin. It's been a long journey and it's still not over. Part of the reason why I wanted to write this list is because my old self would never write this out. Now, I'm learning to come to terms with myself, my sexuality, my body. It's a beautiful thing and It's exciting.
15. Sometimes I wish that I could have a threesome for my first time. Nothing in my life is ever "traditional" and I feel as if I'm always in a state of change or "newness" and so having a threesome (MFF) would just be another kick at "tradition". I would need a connection with both people first, though, and that would be hard to do.
16. Writing this list is ridiculously hard when you have no stories to tell.
17. I can't explain the feeling of relief that I get when I read other people's list and they are my age and still a virgin. Sometimes I feel as if I'm the only one in this world who isn't having a good romp in the bed every night. It also makes me feel like less of a freak.
18. Even though I am still a virgin, I instinctively know that I will be an amazing lover. I have no idea how I know this, but for some reason, I just know. Although I've spent many years pleasuring myself, I am so eager to make someone feel true bliss. That excites me more than anything. To know that I can make someone feel that way.
19. I think that making love on the earth would be the most amazing experience. Two people coming together, natural and free amongst the sky and trees and dirt and grass. It would be like going back to our roots and connecting ourselves with life.
20. I also think that making love on a huge canvas with lots of paint would be the ultimate expression of love. One day I intend to do this with the one I love and hang it somewhere in our home so that it's our own little secret when family and friends come over for visits. They will ask "where did you get the painting?" and we will lie and say "an art gallery".
21. I like that I've been able to develop my own personality and independence and feel comfortable in knowing that I can be my own person. When I fall in love, I will be me. I will be a great catch for some lucky person out there.
22. Surprisingly, I don't feel pressured to be "hardcore" or be kinky. I feel that most people tend to exaggerate their experiences anyway and sex is more about love and union and lust and being silly, rather than being "hardcore." In my opinion, anyway.
23. But who knows, maybe I will end up having completely different views in a few years time.
24. I like knowing that people from all walks of life will be reading this.
25. I can't believe I'm actually going to send this.
2. I'm 19 years old and still a virgin. It's funny because I do not fit the sterotypes for a virgin at all; I'm not religious nor asexual. I consider myself to be outgoing (in most situations), fun and attractive (albeit slightly curvy) and I'm smart too. I don't tend to put myself out there when I'm at parties because now that I've waited this long, I don't feel like it should be blown on some random fuck at a party. It's not like I want to be married or even wait until I know that the person is "the one" but I at least want some sort of connection before I engage in that sort of activity.
3. The thing is, is that those types of connections aren't happening in my life. I can't say that I've ever had a real boyfriend which would probably boggle your mind if you knew me in real life. I think a combination of certain factors contributes to my lack of love life, which includes: moving around (which makes it hard to make friends let alone a boyfriend), being branded a lesbian/feminist in highschool, my lack of self-confidence, my shyness around boys that I like a lot and my strong independence which tends to scare most guys away.
4. When people find out that I don't have a boyfriend they are genuinely surprised and that pisses me off even more because I really do not know what it is that I'm doing wrong. It's not that some boys aren't interested it's just that I never like them enough to follow through with a relationship. I think that deep down, I'm scared of relationships and letting people into my world. I trick myself into thinking that I'm ready for a relationship but when the opportunity comes knocking, I run away.
5. When I was in middle school I had little crushes on many boys in my grade. One boy in particular caught my attention and we would sometimes talk on the phone and have "phone sex" (if you can even call it that). Once, at a birthday party, we were dared to "go into the shower" and do all sorts of things, and my friend at the time got jealous and began to cry. She was thinner than me and this is when I began to develop my body issues. She once told me that I had a flat bum and it's influenced me ever since.
6. I don't consider myself a lesbian but most of my sexual experiences have happened with females. Towards the end of middle school I had a friend and we would experiment with each other. I loved the feelings that I got but I never enjoyed the kissing part. Fast-forward to my last year of highschool when I made out with a guy and I still did not enjoy the kissing.
7. In most ways, I am more afraid of actually kissing than I am of, say, giving head. I think that maybe kissing implies a closer connection than simply getting someone off.
8. Since I haven't had a boyfriend, I've learned to rely on myself. Sexually speaking, I am very comfortable talking about masturbation with my friends. I think that pleasure is so beautiful and I'm happy to know that I've explored my body so that I know what types of things that I respond to. I'm not drawn to anything that is crude or explicit; I become easily turned off by anything "hardcore." While watching porn, I like to see natural images and a genuine enjoyment in the union of two people.
9. Like I said before, I don't consider myself a lesbian but I am drawn to lesbain porn. Perhaps this means that I am a lesbian? Who even knows? My best friend once said "You will be with someone who you feel a connection with, be it a man or woman." I remember feeling peaceful after he said that. Since I haven't had any real boyfriends, my mom thinks I'm a lesbian. I know that she would probably be okay with it but I think that I would know if I was a lesbian or not.
10. Perhaps I just won't define myself. I think that maybe I should just live my life and not care about whether someone is a man or a woman.
11. I have so much to learn about myself. It's exciting to know that I have this whole side of me that I get to explore one day.
12. This summer while traveling, I saw two women who were beautiful and confident. They were together and I've thought about them ever since. I could be in a relationship like that... but the sterotypical "butch" woman wouldn't be for me.
13. Now that I'm thinking about it, I'm always attracted to a more "feminine" male. At my work there is a 17 year-old male who I am so attracted to. His face is so beautiful and his demeanor is so soft and calm, and recently I've felt his energy combine with my own. I feel so horrible for even thinking this way seeing as he is so young.
14. Over the past few months I've been feeling myself transform my mind and body to become more comfortable in my skin. It's been a long journey and it's still not over. Part of the reason why I wanted to write this list is because my old self would never write this out. Now, I'm learning to come to terms with myself, my sexuality, my body. It's a beautiful thing and It's exciting.
15. Sometimes I wish that I could have a threesome for my first time. Nothing in my life is ever "traditional" and I feel as if I'm always in a state of change or "newness" and so having a threesome (MFF) would just be another kick at "tradition". I would need a connection with both people first, though, and that would be hard to do.
16. Writing this list is ridiculously hard when you have no stories to tell.
17. I can't explain the feeling of relief that I get when I read other people's list and they are my age and still a virgin. Sometimes I feel as if I'm the only one in this world who isn't having a good romp in the bed every night. It also makes me feel like less of a freak.
18. Even though I am still a virgin, I instinctively know that I will be an amazing lover. I have no idea how I know this, but for some reason, I just know. Although I've spent many years pleasuring myself, I am so eager to make someone feel true bliss. That excites me more than anything. To know that I can make someone feel that way.
19. I think that making love on the earth would be the most amazing experience. Two people coming together, natural and free amongst the sky and trees and dirt and grass. It would be like going back to our roots and connecting ourselves with life.
20. I also think that making love on a huge canvas with lots of paint would be the ultimate expression of love. One day I intend to do this with the one I love and hang it somewhere in our home so that it's our own little secret when family and friends come over for visits. They will ask "where did you get the painting?" and we will lie and say "an art gallery".
21. I like that I've been able to develop my own personality and independence and feel comfortable in knowing that I can be my own person. When I fall in love, I will be me. I will be a great catch for some lucky person out there.
22. Surprisingly, I don't feel pressured to be "hardcore" or be kinky. I feel that most people tend to exaggerate their experiences anyway and sex is more about love and union and lust and being silly, rather than being "hardcore." In my opinion, anyway.
23. But who knows, maybe I will end up having completely different views in a few years time.
24. I like knowing that people from all walks of life will be reading this.
25. I can't believe I'm actually going to send this.
Monday, December 28, 2009
1. I just turned 20 and I am still a total virgin.
2. I don't meet any of the virgin girl stereotypes: I'm not religious, I don't have moral issues with sex, I'm not unattractive and I get hit on a lot. I have a bit of a bad girl reputation with my smoking/drinking/swearing, so people tend to assume I'm pretty experienced. I always have trouble discussing my virginity.
3. Like I have inhibitions about discussing sex, I've always had a lot of inhibitions about actually having it. Every time I've had a chance to hook up, I've either turned it down or chickened out.
4. I used to think this was because I was asexual, but I don't think I am. I think I'm just afraid of intimacy.
5. Due to this fear, I suppose, I've only had one real boyfriend. We never went further than hand-up-the-shirt, but for some reason I feel gross about having him touch me when I didn't really like him that much.
6. Despite all this - I feel like my virginity is a burden, and I have a horrible fear of being a virgin forever. Weird dilemma, right? Sometimes I wish I could just fast-forward through sex and get it over with so I'd be deflowered and done with it.
7. I'm also intimidated by the sexual expectations for women these days. We have to look smokin' hot, work it on top, give great blowjobs. What's a poor virgin girl to do? 'Lie back and think of England' seems almost charming in comparison.
8. I've concluded that I need to lose my virginity in a one-night stand while exceedingly drunk. I have standards, though - the guy has to be 1) attractive and 2) very considerate. Couple these with my lack of time to party, and it may be a long time.
9. There probably won't be blood the first time, either - I popped my cherry as a kid during gymnastics.
10. I have zero interest in porn. I have given it a try, but I find it either laughable or boring.
11. I am rarely interested in my hand, either. Maybe I am less sexual than normal.
12. Or maybe it's just my weird concepts of sexuality. I am very, very attracted to male dominance. Sometimes I feel guilty about this like it makes me a bad feminist.
13. On top of that, my interests hold for nothing egalitarian in the bedroom. I have no desire to receive oral sex, be on top, or play the dominatrix. I'd rather the man be in charge of everything and I like the idea of mock rape, bondage, masochism, submission. Horrible feminism, right? But we can't change our desires.
14. Even though my tastes run along the BDSM spectrum, I can't imagine myself ever being part of the fetish community. While I respect them with all my heart, something about it - the crazy vinyl outfits, the public shows and discussions, the rules - seems very comical to me, and that ruins all the fun.
15. I feel like I'm not sexually liberated enough to be a modern feminist woman. But would it really be liberation if I forced myself to do something simply for its own sake?
16. I'm jealous of 'liberated' women - strippers, burlesque dancers, sex-worker advocates, feminist porn writers. They all have something I don't, and sometimes I feel like I'm their enemy - like I'm a repressed woman, giving in to the patriarchy. But, like I said - we can't change our desires.
17. Sometimes I wonder if I'm the only straight girl who doesn't have bi-curious impulses. All my female friends have/want to 'experiment', even with me, but I've never had any interest in it. I think girls are attractive, but it's a purely aesthetic thing.
18. Though, once I had a dream where I was making out with Greta Garbo. It was hot.
19. I have a mad passion for sexy lingerie. I love thigh high stockings, garter belts, frilly panties, corsets. I also secretly adore skanky stripper shoes and thigh-high boots.
20. I think penises are kind of ugly. But I like them as a symbol of power.
21. Power is the sexiest thing in the world. I have had several crushes on bosses and profs. I tend to go for older men, too, so it's a horrible double-whammy. I never act on my impulses, though - there's too much that can go wrong.
22. The only thing as sexy as power? A nice foreign accent.
23. I am very attracted to SS uniforms. Not only are they the most attractive military uniform, but the SS officer is the pinnacle of male dominance and power - and German accents are hot. I think this is a horrible, horrible thing to be attracted to, and I feel very, very guilty about it. But, once again - we can't change our desires.
24. What we do have control over, however, is our choices. I have chosen to never, ever, ever watch The Night Porter.
25. I feel better having written about this, since I never discuss my sexuality in real life. Looking back on what I've written - it's probably a good thing.
2. I don't meet any of the virgin girl stereotypes: I'm not religious, I don't have moral issues with sex, I'm not unattractive and I get hit on a lot. I have a bit of a bad girl reputation with my smoking/drinking/swearing, so people tend to assume I'm pretty experienced. I always have trouble discussing my virginity.
3. Like I have inhibitions about discussing sex, I've always had a lot of inhibitions about actually having it. Every time I've had a chance to hook up, I've either turned it down or chickened out.
4. I used to think this was because I was asexual, but I don't think I am. I think I'm just afraid of intimacy.
5. Due to this fear, I suppose, I've only had one real boyfriend. We never went further than hand-up-the-shirt, but for some reason I feel gross about having him touch me when I didn't really like him that much.
6. Despite all this - I feel like my virginity is a burden, and I have a horrible fear of being a virgin forever. Weird dilemma, right? Sometimes I wish I could just fast-forward through sex and get it over with so I'd be deflowered and done with it.
7. I'm also intimidated by the sexual expectations for women these days. We have to look smokin' hot, work it on top, give great blowjobs. What's a poor virgin girl to do? 'Lie back and think of England' seems almost charming in comparison.
8. I've concluded that I need to lose my virginity in a one-night stand while exceedingly drunk. I have standards, though - the guy has to be 1) attractive and 2) very considerate. Couple these with my lack of time to party, and it may be a long time.
9. There probably won't be blood the first time, either - I popped my cherry as a kid during gymnastics.
10. I have zero interest in porn. I have given it a try, but I find it either laughable or boring.
11. I am rarely interested in my hand, either. Maybe I am less sexual than normal.
12. Or maybe it's just my weird concepts of sexuality. I am very, very attracted to male dominance. Sometimes I feel guilty about this like it makes me a bad feminist.
13. On top of that, my interests hold for nothing egalitarian in the bedroom. I have no desire to receive oral sex, be on top, or play the dominatrix. I'd rather the man be in charge of everything and I like the idea of mock rape, bondage, masochism, submission. Horrible feminism, right? But we can't change our desires.
14. Even though my tastes run along the BDSM spectrum, I can't imagine myself ever being part of the fetish community. While I respect them with all my heart, something about it - the crazy vinyl outfits, the public shows and discussions, the rules - seems very comical to me, and that ruins all the fun.
15. I feel like I'm not sexually liberated enough to be a modern feminist woman. But would it really be liberation if I forced myself to do something simply for its own sake?
16. I'm jealous of 'liberated' women - strippers, burlesque dancers, sex-worker advocates, feminist porn writers. They all have something I don't, and sometimes I feel like I'm their enemy - like I'm a repressed woman, giving in to the patriarchy. But, like I said - we can't change our desires.
17. Sometimes I wonder if I'm the only straight girl who doesn't have bi-curious impulses. All my female friends have/want to 'experiment', even with me, but I've never had any interest in it. I think girls are attractive, but it's a purely aesthetic thing.
18. Though, once I had a dream where I was making out with Greta Garbo. It was hot.
19. I have a mad passion for sexy lingerie. I love thigh high stockings, garter belts, frilly panties, corsets. I also secretly adore skanky stripper shoes and thigh-high boots.
20. I think penises are kind of ugly. But I like them as a symbol of power.
21. Power is the sexiest thing in the world. I have had several crushes on bosses and profs. I tend to go for older men, too, so it's a horrible double-whammy. I never act on my impulses, though - there's too much that can go wrong.
22. The only thing as sexy as power? A nice foreign accent.
23. I am very attracted to SS uniforms. Not only are they the most attractive military uniform, but the SS officer is the pinnacle of male dominance and power - and German accents are hot. I think this is a horrible, horrible thing to be attracted to, and I feel very, very guilty about it. But, once again - we can't change our desires.
24. What we do have control over, however, is our choices. I have chosen to never, ever, ever watch The Night Porter.
25. I feel better having written about this, since I never discuss my sexuality in real life. Looking back on what I've written - it's probably a good thing.
1) I'm a 24 year old male and a 2 on the Kinsey scale.
2) I've slept with 12 women, two of whom I loved.
3) And one transgender person, who I loved as well.
4) I'm all about gender equality and so on but I'm afraid that, sexually, I'm pretty much a dominant straight guy, loosely defined, of course, but willing to accept queer as a label. Sometimes, I think my blandness is a failing but I know that's not going to change. Still, I'm uncomfortable with the privilege my heterosexual masculinity grants me.
5) I've never had a one-night stand. I've had a two-night stand, however, and I sometimes miss the fragility of that final day. She was an exchange student.
6) I was engaged once because that was the prerequisite for having sex in her father's house. She bought me a spinner engagement ring. She wanted babies. I did not. We were both 20 at the time and smarter than that. She has twins now and I am happy for her. She's a great mom. I will be a great dad for my future daughter (singular, gender non-negotiable).
7) I don't enjoy cunnilingus because I don't think I'm very good at it. I am, however, really good at rimming. I don't know if I am good because I enjoy it or if I enjoy it because I'm good at it.
8) I've been told multiple times that I have a beautifully shaped cock. It's about average in size (6) and girth (5.5) so I've never believed it whenever they've said it. Guess I'm not much of an aesthete.
9) I've never been in an orgy but I've fucked an ex in the same room as my best friend and my ex's best friend. It was pretty hot because my best friend and and I ended up syncing up on our thrusting. I thought it was really cool. Two best friends having sex with two best friends. Close enough to high five, though we didn't.
10) I could never be in an actual orgy. I'm too selfish and don't trust my partner to stay with me in a monogamous relationship afterward. I like monogamy. I'm lame like that. It might also be because I hate condoms and think behavior that makes condoms necessary isn't for me.
11) I prefer ass over tits but I think tits are more comforting.
12) The first orgasm I had was when I was 12 and I accidentally rubbed up against my bare mattress because the sheets were in the wash. I was very confused.
13) I have no fetishes to speak of. What attracts me sexually to a person varies and is always specific to that one person. I really wish I had a type I could narrow my tastes down to: "likes Native women with big tits, has a foot fetish and a thing for the harem girl look." I think it'd make me more normal and also, more interesting. I hate having to say "uhh" when I'm asked what I like or go for. This is a matter of great concern for my family who aren't comfortable with certain kinds of relationships. They're convinced that I'll break their heart with my eventual choice of mate, and I know I will.
14) Hmm, maybe #13's not entirely accurate re: fetishes. I have a thing for Hispanic accents/culture. I will quite literally sleep with any Brazilian Portuguese speaker, no matter how ugly, simply because of how they sound when they speak.
15) I've dated every major ethnicity but East Asian. And not for lack of trying. I think every man in my almost-majority-Asian West Coast hometown has dated an Asian woman, but somehow, they simply do not find me attractive. This depresses me. Why don't Asian women like me? This dating diversity thing has not been a conscious choice for me, but now it is something of a goal to bed an Asian girl.
16) The best blowjob I've received was on a Greyhound five minutes or so from the US-Canada border. We were returning from a metal concert (Katatonia/Agalloch) in Portland. I was terrified that I would not be allowed back into the country for being lewd or whatever. Finished up barely ten seconds before the lights were turned on. I came so hard it was embarrassing.
17) I think I would have been homophobic if my first girlfriend hadn't forbidden me from getting off on watching girls in porn. It almost tore us apart until I realized that trannies exist and were a convenient loophole. It took me about a year to be comfortable with that aspect of my sexuality. Still, it astounded me when I found myself in an actual relationship with a transgender person who was just starting out. In fact, the first time she ever stepped out of the house presenting female was with me. The first time either of us stepped into a gay bar was together. I didn't think I'd ever be that brave or that I would come to love someone not genetically female. It surprised a lot of people, ourselves included, what a natural couple we made. It also made me realize that most men who are attracted to the transgendered are, generally speaking, really, really sleazy and the scum of the gay community. I don't think I could be with another like her unless we connected the way she and I did. I don't know why I have that bar.
18) When my ex and I vacationed in a cabin in the woods a few years ago, we fucked 50 times in 4 days. I didn't think it was physically possible. We were aiming for 10 or 15 but we had nothing else to do as we were snowed in and I'd blown my pay check on the cabin itself and couldn't afford to go out. It was a really nice cabin.
19) My favorite thing to do is fall asleep inside my partner. Nothing matches that feeling of closeness. I also like it when I wake up before them and pull out ever so slowly. The look on their face when they wake up, that mix of shock and anger and pleasure and desire really turns me on.
20) I like laughter. I dislike sex that isn't, at its core at least, overtly good-humored and this is why I actively dislike dominant/submissive type relationships. I don't want to take away your control. I think any relationship that cannot find the humor in the bodies that make it up is not a relationship worth having. I want to feel awe at the human connection and laugh about it and feel happy.
21) I was kissed by my professor who is also a famous author during a one-on-one session that had to do with my work. I wasn't expecting the kiss (I thought it was a random unprovoked hug goodbye), nor had I expressed or received any prior indication of interest. I pulled away because it was inappropriate but I did say "Thank you" because the thought that I could possibly make a famous writer want me provided me with immense gratification.
22) I think I'm ugly and so take any expression of interest in me with a ton of gratitude. One of my best friends (who I tried to sleep with) told me that most people don't hit on me because I seem so confident in my skin that they presume I have a girlfriend or wouldn't be into them. Or it could be that I'm just that unattractive. Not grotesque or anything close to it, just far from the norm. I'm told I'm intimidating. They don't realize I pet stray kittens I meet. People who find this out often fall in love with me. I really want to be conventionally handsome.
23) I've let a couple of my friends use my bedroom to conduct their illicit sexual activities in. I feel sorry for people who have no place to fuck in. I'm nice like that.
24) I think it's strange how even though I hate having my picture taken in regular social settings, I'm completely comfortable with having my picture taken in a sexual setting. I'm also comfortable knowing that a couple of my exes have put those pictures up online. That said, I could never post any of the stuff on my camera online. For some reason, I think that's gross, as is taking my picture myself. Someone else better be doing the clicking.
25) A couple months ago, I was juggling three women. I didn't like the effect secrecy had on myself and my wallet. I did it because I felt like the world owed me for sticking with my last relationship which became a long-distance thing due to my move. I wouldn't do it again.
2) I've slept with 12 women, two of whom I loved.
3) And one transgender person, who I loved as well.
4) I'm all about gender equality and so on but I'm afraid that, sexually, I'm pretty much a dominant straight guy, loosely defined, of course, but willing to accept queer as a label. Sometimes, I think my blandness is a failing but I know that's not going to change. Still, I'm uncomfortable with the privilege my heterosexual masculinity grants me.
5) I've never had a one-night stand. I've had a two-night stand, however, and I sometimes miss the fragility of that final day. She was an exchange student.
6) I was engaged once because that was the prerequisite for having sex in her father's house. She bought me a spinner engagement ring. She wanted babies. I did not. We were both 20 at the time and smarter than that. She has twins now and I am happy for her. She's a great mom. I will be a great dad for my future daughter (singular, gender non-negotiable).
7) I don't enjoy cunnilingus because I don't think I'm very good at it. I am, however, really good at rimming. I don't know if I am good because I enjoy it or if I enjoy it because I'm good at it.
8) I've been told multiple times that I have a beautifully shaped cock. It's about average in size (6) and girth (5.5) so I've never believed it whenever they've said it. Guess I'm not much of an aesthete.
9) I've never been in an orgy but I've fucked an ex in the same room as my best friend and my ex's best friend. It was pretty hot because my best friend and and I ended up syncing up on our thrusting. I thought it was really cool. Two best friends having sex with two best friends. Close enough to high five, though we didn't.
10) I could never be in an actual orgy. I'm too selfish and don't trust my partner to stay with me in a monogamous relationship afterward. I like monogamy. I'm lame like that. It might also be because I hate condoms and think behavior that makes condoms necessary isn't for me.
11) I prefer ass over tits but I think tits are more comforting.
12) The first orgasm I had was when I was 12 and I accidentally rubbed up against my bare mattress because the sheets were in the wash. I was very confused.
13) I have no fetishes to speak of. What attracts me sexually to a person varies and is always specific to that one person. I really wish I had a type I could narrow my tastes down to: "likes Native women with big tits, has a foot fetish and a thing for the harem girl look." I think it'd make me more normal and also, more interesting. I hate having to say "uhh" when I'm asked what I like or go for. This is a matter of great concern for my family who aren't comfortable with certain kinds of relationships. They're convinced that I'll break their heart with my eventual choice of mate, and I know I will.
14) Hmm, maybe #13's not entirely accurate re: fetishes. I have a thing for Hispanic accents/culture. I will quite literally sleep with any Brazilian Portuguese speaker, no matter how ugly, simply because of how they sound when they speak.
15) I've dated every major ethnicity but East Asian. And not for lack of trying. I think every man in my almost-majority-Asian West Coast hometown has dated an Asian woman, but somehow, they simply do not find me attractive. This depresses me. Why don't Asian women like me? This dating diversity thing has not been a conscious choice for me, but now it is something of a goal to bed an Asian girl.
16) The best blowjob I've received was on a Greyhound five minutes or so from the US-Canada border. We were returning from a metal concert (Katatonia/Agalloch) in Portland. I was terrified that I would not be allowed back into the country for being lewd or whatever. Finished up barely ten seconds before the lights were turned on. I came so hard it was embarrassing.
17) I think I would have been homophobic if my first girlfriend hadn't forbidden me from getting off on watching girls in porn. It almost tore us apart until I realized that trannies exist and were a convenient loophole. It took me about a year to be comfortable with that aspect of my sexuality. Still, it astounded me when I found myself in an actual relationship with a transgender person who was just starting out. In fact, the first time she ever stepped out of the house presenting female was with me. The first time either of us stepped into a gay bar was together. I didn't think I'd ever be that brave or that I would come to love someone not genetically female. It surprised a lot of people, ourselves included, what a natural couple we made. It also made me realize that most men who are attracted to the transgendered are, generally speaking, really, really sleazy and the scum of the gay community. I don't think I could be with another like her unless we connected the way she and I did. I don't know why I have that bar.
18) When my ex and I vacationed in a cabin in the woods a few years ago, we fucked 50 times in 4 days. I didn't think it was physically possible. We were aiming for 10 or 15 but we had nothing else to do as we were snowed in and I'd blown my pay check on the cabin itself and couldn't afford to go out. It was a really nice cabin.
19) My favorite thing to do is fall asleep inside my partner. Nothing matches that feeling of closeness. I also like it when I wake up before them and pull out ever so slowly. The look on their face when they wake up, that mix of shock and anger and pleasure and desire really turns me on.
20) I like laughter. I dislike sex that isn't, at its core at least, overtly good-humored and this is why I actively dislike dominant/submissive type relationships. I don't want to take away your control. I think any relationship that cannot find the humor in the bodies that make it up is not a relationship worth having. I want to feel awe at the human connection and laugh about it and feel happy.
21) I was kissed by my professor who is also a famous author during a one-on-one session that had to do with my work. I wasn't expecting the kiss (I thought it was a random unprovoked hug goodbye), nor had I expressed or received any prior indication of interest. I pulled away because it was inappropriate but I did say "Thank you" because the thought that I could possibly make a famous writer want me provided me with immense gratification.
22) I think I'm ugly and so take any expression of interest in me with a ton of gratitude. One of my best friends (who I tried to sleep with) told me that most people don't hit on me because I seem so confident in my skin that they presume I have a girlfriend or wouldn't be into them. Or it could be that I'm just that unattractive. Not grotesque or anything close to it, just far from the norm. I'm told I'm intimidating. They don't realize I pet stray kittens I meet. People who find this out often fall in love with me. I really want to be conventionally handsome.
23) I've let a couple of my friends use my bedroom to conduct their illicit sexual activities in. I feel sorry for people who have no place to fuck in. I'm nice like that.
24) I think it's strange how even though I hate having my picture taken in regular social settings, I'm completely comfortable with having my picture taken in a sexual setting. I'm also comfortable knowing that a couple of my exes have put those pictures up online. That said, I could never post any of the stuff on my camera online. For some reason, I think that's gross, as is taking my picture myself. Someone else better be doing the clicking.
25) A couple months ago, I was juggling three women. I didn't like the effect secrecy had on myself and my wallet. I did it because I felt like the world owed me for sticking with my last relationship which became a long-distance thing due to my move. I wouldn't do it again.
1) I believe I am pretty much omnisexual. I like sex with boys, girls, trans, queer (and maybe some things outside of the box...). But I identify as lesbian because, well, I'm too lazy to explain it all and I typically only 'date' women. But i can fuck anything.
2) I would love to be dominated, completely, just to experience it.
3) I can not submit to men, just can't...
4) I was once addicted to gay porn, and still rely on it occasionally.
5) I masturbate just to make myself tired enough to sleep most nights.
6) I don't think in one gender, and sometimes when I masturbate I visualize myself stroking my invisible cock.
7) My friends accuse me of being a 'furry' and I deny it, but to be honest, I have no idea.
8) I had a friend once who would get on his knees in front of me, look up, hands behind his back and quietly say "Please, command me, Mistress..." He was joking, but it gave me such a powerful surge I had to walk away.
9) I fully intend on exploring that side of me.
10) One of my sexual goals is to fuck a man in the ass with a strap-on.
11) I prefer virgins, or those less experienced than I am.
12) I would like to take the time to explore a man, but have only come across idiots so far, where once it all starts I wish it were over. I have better things to be doing than letting you borrow my vagina.
13) There was one man though, a gorgeous Puerto Rican truck driver. He wanted to explore. I didn't believe him and I think I kind of trashed that opportunity. I hope to run into him again. The experience was amazing, the only time I've actually enjoyed myself with a man.
14) I strive to fully satisfy my partner, blowing their mind and making their fantasies come true.
15) I really wish things like STDs didn't exist. If they didn't I would fuck many, many, many more people. (I'm often tempted to hit up strangers.)
16) I love giving anal. It makes me think my partner is very very slutty and it's arousing to me.
17) I hate shaving, and really like my legs when they are hairy. Yet I shave my armpits and trim my pubic area.
18) I love getting my boots shined and polished.
19) The smell of leather makes me wet.
20) I find camo to be very sexy, not sure why.
21) I love to dress up and roleplay.
22) I like keeping some clothes on during sex, it somehow feels naughtier.
23) It really freaks me out when girls completely shave their pubic area. It's not appealing to me. Besides, I like a little hair to nuzzle.
24) Cuddling after sex is mandatory.
25) Sex is always better when I love the person.
2) I would love to be dominated, completely, just to experience it.
3) I can not submit to men, just can't...
4) I was once addicted to gay porn, and still rely on it occasionally.
5) I masturbate just to make myself tired enough to sleep most nights.
6) I don't think in one gender, and sometimes when I masturbate I visualize myself stroking my invisible cock.
7) My friends accuse me of being a 'furry' and I deny it, but to be honest, I have no idea.
8) I had a friend once who would get on his knees in front of me, look up, hands behind his back and quietly say "Please, command me, Mistress..." He was joking, but it gave me such a powerful surge I had to walk away.
9) I fully intend on exploring that side of me.
10) One of my sexual goals is to fuck a man in the ass with a strap-on.
11) I prefer virgins, or those less experienced than I am.
12) I would like to take the time to explore a man, but have only come across idiots so far, where once it all starts I wish it were over. I have better things to be doing than letting you borrow my vagina.
13) There was one man though, a gorgeous Puerto Rican truck driver. He wanted to explore. I didn't believe him and I think I kind of trashed that opportunity. I hope to run into him again. The experience was amazing, the only time I've actually enjoyed myself with a man.
14) I strive to fully satisfy my partner, blowing their mind and making their fantasies come true.
15) I really wish things like STDs didn't exist. If they didn't I would fuck many, many, many more people. (I'm often tempted to hit up strangers.)
16) I love giving anal. It makes me think my partner is very very slutty and it's arousing to me.
17) I hate shaving, and really like my legs when they are hairy. Yet I shave my armpits and trim my pubic area.
18) I love getting my boots shined and polished.
19) The smell of leather makes me wet.
20) I find camo to be very sexy, not sure why.
21) I love to dress up and roleplay.
22) I like keeping some clothes on during sex, it somehow feels naughtier.
23) It really freaks me out when girls completely shave their pubic area. It's not appealing to me. Besides, I like a little hair to nuzzle.
24) Cuddling after sex is mandatory.
25) Sex is always better when I love the person.
1) I am a 24 year old guy who considers himself straight, and I am currently single.
2) My earliest memory of masturbation would have been when I was around 12, I think. I remember my older female cousin coming over to stay and she had just jumped out of the shower, wearing nothing but a towel. I remember being curiously turned on, then touching myself later that night to that image. I have never told anyone this as I was and still am ashamed due to the fact she was my cousin.
3) My first sexual experiences were with my first long-term girlfriend. I lost my virginity at 16 (during a movie session at her house). The experience was a little unsettling due to the pain she went through and the awkwardness of both of us virgins grinding away not knowing what to do with our bodies. At the time we both thought it was pretty normal for us to have 'done it' and assumed a majority of our school friends had experienced sex, but a week later the rumour had spread that we'd had sex and it turned out we'd beaten all but one girl to the punch. We became known as 'the couple.'
4) We stayed in a long relationship (6 years) which finally broke up due to long distance and the fact I had cheated on her. I have since had only one other long term girlfriend (2 years) who I broke up with because I found myself wanting to date other people. I an currently single and hoping not to inflict any more pain on a girl wanting a relationship.
5) Because of this need to be single, I am sometimes brutally honest with what I'm looking for in any kind of sexual relationship. Some girls don't want just a fuck buddy and i'm fine with that, but I tell them up front to ensure I don't lead them on.
6) I always feel uneasy trying to hit on girls at nightclubs, and rarely if ever sleep with someone I've only recently met if they're drunk. I feel dirty and feel like I've taken advantage of her. They'll still come home with me, might stay in the same bed as me, but nothing will happen. This happens with me a lot.
7) Because the above happens a fair bit, my friends think I'm a bit of a smooth talking Casanova taking girls home all the time. I've only really had 18 months of singledom and I claim I've slept with 15 different women (including the two gfs) in order to save face. The number is closer to 7, I can't even remember as I've started to believe my own lies.
8) I tend to date 'princess types' but seem to have casual sex with people I really shouldn't. The list of people I shouldn't have had sex with includes ex-girlfriends' friends, people from work and ex-housemates. I also always seem to fantasize about my girlfriends' sisters when in relationships.
9) My deepest darkest secret is that given the chance, I 'digitally snoop' people's cameras or computers for compromising shots of them. I currently have semi-nude photos of both long-term ex-girlfriends' sisters, one of an ex's dad and mom, and one of an ex-housemate. I can't bring myself to delete them even though I know what I'm doing is wrong.
10) I like to think I'm a competent lover, who's particularly good at foreplay. I love to tease girls with massage, kisses all over, especially the neck, and don't mind giving head; even on one night stands. Given a little instruction or helping hand, I always make sure a girl has come once or twice from head and hand-work, before I go to penetrative sex.
11) Because of the hangup I have about drunk girls, I have fooled around with a lot of girls in this way, but don't count them as girls I've slept with as penetrative sex didn't happen. I really wish I'd follow up on these 'half one night stands' as I'm sure that a second actual
round would often be on the cards.
12) I'm not 100% confident with my body at the moment. I've let myself go a bit and I think this now affects my confidence with women. As a result, lots of girls just see me as a good friend, whereas I've seen them as initial attraction, waited too long to make a move due to this hangup and ended up in 'friend town.'
13) Despite being what I've been reassured is slightly above-average dimensions downstairs, I can't help but wish for a bigger penis. I really want my penis both longer and thicker, and have seriously looked into ways to enlarge it.
14) I don't really like getting head. Only one of my girlfriends has been really good at it, and only one has let me come in her mouth.
15) I'm into soft bondage, with tying up each other with a tie or scarf, or I'll hold down their hands using one of mine. Girls drive me nuts when they nibble and gently bite me, or scratch me down my back when I'm on top.
16) The best sex I ever had was with the girl I cheated on my first girlfriend with. It sounds harsh, but to finally realise that everyone has sex differently, and the fact the sex was dirty, sexy, lustful sex, meant it was the most mindblowing experience. I felt like absolute crap afterwards due to the cheating fact.
17) I'm always keen to try new things and keep an open mind in regards to sex. I also like to think I push my partners' sexual boundaries. I'll try anything once.
18) Although I won't have sex with a girl much drunker than myself, sex on drugs is a completely different story. Sex on ecstasy is amazing, and when both me and a girl are on it, I have great sex.
19) I like a girl who talks dirty and plays a little bit submissive. I love a girl who takes control and plays dominant.
20) I've had a fair bit of anal sex with my various partners. I don't think it's always as amazing as most guys seem to make it out to be, and if the girl is uncomfortable I'll stop. Nothing is sexy about a girl in pain.
21) Although I'm quite open and willing to experience, there's stuff that I haven't been able to do. I'd love to have a threesome (both MMF and FFM), an orgy, and a bit more bondage.
22) I masturbate a lot and watch quite a lot of porn. Sometimes I think I spend too much energy masturbating when I could be putting the time and energy into seeing regular sex partners. Sex is always better with another person.
23) I'm intrigued by tantric sex, and wish I could find someone to help me to learn as I think it'd be much better than learning from a book.
24) I'm always commited to safe sex especially seeing as I haven't got a permanent sexual partner. It's more to stop the STIs rather than pregnancy, but that said, 'Knocked Up' scared the crap outta me.
25) I seriously think I'm at the point of my life where I'm happy to be single and experience the smorgasbord of life and sexual experience. A lot of my close friends are getting engaged and the like, and I'm completely opposite to that and very comfortable with that fact. I'm sure I'll eventually want to settle down but for the moment I'm happy with where I'm at.
2) My earliest memory of masturbation would have been when I was around 12, I think. I remember my older female cousin coming over to stay and she had just jumped out of the shower, wearing nothing but a towel. I remember being curiously turned on, then touching myself later that night to that image. I have never told anyone this as I was and still am ashamed due to the fact she was my cousin.
3) My first sexual experiences were with my first long-term girlfriend. I lost my virginity at 16 (during a movie session at her house). The experience was a little unsettling due to the pain she went through and the awkwardness of both of us virgins grinding away not knowing what to do with our bodies. At the time we both thought it was pretty normal for us to have 'done it' and assumed a majority of our school friends had experienced sex, but a week later the rumour had spread that we'd had sex and it turned out we'd beaten all but one girl to the punch. We became known as 'the couple.'
4) We stayed in a long relationship (6 years) which finally broke up due to long distance and the fact I had cheated on her. I have since had only one other long term girlfriend (2 years) who I broke up with because I found myself wanting to date other people. I an currently single and hoping not to inflict any more pain on a girl wanting a relationship.
5) Because of this need to be single, I am sometimes brutally honest with what I'm looking for in any kind of sexual relationship. Some girls don't want just a fuck buddy and i'm fine with that, but I tell them up front to ensure I don't lead them on.
6) I always feel uneasy trying to hit on girls at nightclubs, and rarely if ever sleep with someone I've only recently met if they're drunk. I feel dirty and feel like I've taken advantage of her. They'll still come home with me, might stay in the same bed as me, but nothing will happen. This happens with me a lot.
7) Because the above happens a fair bit, my friends think I'm a bit of a smooth talking Casanova taking girls home all the time. I've only really had 18 months of singledom and I claim I've slept with 15 different women (including the two gfs) in order to save face. The number is closer to 7, I can't even remember as I've started to believe my own lies.
8) I tend to date 'princess types' but seem to have casual sex with people I really shouldn't. The list of people I shouldn't have had sex with includes ex-girlfriends' friends, people from work and ex-housemates. I also always seem to fantasize about my girlfriends' sisters when in relationships.
9) My deepest darkest secret is that given the chance, I 'digitally snoop' people's cameras or computers for compromising shots of them. I currently have semi-nude photos of both long-term ex-girlfriends' sisters, one of an ex's dad and mom, and one of an ex-housemate. I can't bring myself to delete them even though I know what I'm doing is wrong.
10) I like to think I'm a competent lover, who's particularly good at foreplay. I love to tease girls with massage, kisses all over, especially the neck, and don't mind giving head; even on one night stands. Given a little instruction or helping hand, I always make sure a girl has come once or twice from head and hand-work, before I go to penetrative sex.
11) Because of the hangup I have about drunk girls, I have fooled around with a lot of girls in this way, but don't count them as girls I've slept with as penetrative sex didn't happen. I really wish I'd follow up on these 'half one night stands' as I'm sure that a second actual
round would often be on the cards.
12) I'm not 100% confident with my body at the moment. I've let myself go a bit and I think this now affects my confidence with women. As a result, lots of girls just see me as a good friend, whereas I've seen them as initial attraction, waited too long to make a move due to this hangup and ended up in 'friend town.'
13) Despite being what I've been reassured is slightly above-average dimensions downstairs, I can't help but wish for a bigger penis. I really want my penis both longer and thicker, and have seriously looked into ways to enlarge it.
14) I don't really like getting head. Only one of my girlfriends has been really good at it, and only one has let me come in her mouth.
15) I'm into soft bondage, with tying up each other with a tie or scarf, or I'll hold down their hands using one of mine. Girls drive me nuts when they nibble and gently bite me, or scratch me down my back when I'm on top.
16) The best sex I ever had was with the girl I cheated on my first girlfriend with. It sounds harsh, but to finally realise that everyone has sex differently, and the fact the sex was dirty, sexy, lustful sex, meant it was the most mindblowing experience. I felt like absolute crap afterwards due to the cheating fact.
17) I'm always keen to try new things and keep an open mind in regards to sex. I also like to think I push my partners' sexual boundaries. I'll try anything once.
18) Although I won't have sex with a girl much drunker than myself, sex on drugs is a completely different story. Sex on ecstasy is amazing, and when both me and a girl are on it, I have great sex.
19) I like a girl who talks dirty and plays a little bit submissive. I love a girl who takes control and plays dominant.
20) I've had a fair bit of anal sex with my various partners. I don't think it's always as amazing as most guys seem to make it out to be, and if the girl is uncomfortable I'll stop. Nothing is sexy about a girl in pain.
21) Although I'm quite open and willing to experience, there's stuff that I haven't been able to do. I'd love to have a threesome (both MMF and FFM), an orgy, and a bit more bondage.
22) I masturbate a lot and watch quite a lot of porn. Sometimes I think I spend too much energy masturbating when I could be putting the time and energy into seeing regular sex partners. Sex is always better with another person.
23) I'm intrigued by tantric sex, and wish I could find someone to help me to learn as I think it'd be much better than learning from a book.
24) I'm always commited to safe sex especially seeing as I haven't got a permanent sexual partner. It's more to stop the STIs rather than pregnancy, but that said, 'Knocked Up' scared the crap outta me.
25) I seriously think I'm at the point of my life where I'm happy to be single and experience the smorgasbord of life and sexual experience. A lot of my close friends are getting engaged and the like, and I'm completely opposite to that and very comfortable with that fact. I'm sure I'll eventually want to settle down but for the moment I'm happy with where I'm at.
Friday, December 18, 2009
1. I am 18 years old and have had sex with 3 men. All of these happened within the last year.
2. The guy I lost my virginity to was a complete dick. He had a small cock and didn't even know what he was doing. He got me drunk after I had recently been broken up with and fucked me. I feel guilty, like I'm one of those girls who is just blaming the guy for having sex when she didn't want to, but he completely played me. He said we were going to date, and that he might love me. He left me two weeks later.
3. The second guy I had sex with could have been a fantastic fuck. He was pretty experienced and loved sex. He was bisexual and promiscuous and I really regret not being more outgoing. He wanted to try anal. I was scared. I always felt uncomfortable being sexual with him. I loved him though.
4. I have finally accepted myself as bi. I've only made out with one girl but I love how soft and frisky we are. Soft hands on soft breasts. I love boobs and the idea of a girl licking my tits and playing with me. I don't know if I ever will...
5. I'm trying to be more adventurous with my boyfriend. We've finally been able to buy toys. It is amazing.
6. I took my boyfriend's virginity earlier this year. He is inexperienced but I love it; everything he learns is exactly how to please my body. We're currently working on making me squirt, and it seems to be going well.
7. I orgasmed for the first time earlier this year. I've been masturbating since I was about 10 but I've never been able to do it for myself. I always get tired out.
8. I've only orgasmed twice during sex. The first time, it was one of the most amazing feelings of my life. But when he pulled out we realized the condom broke, which then led to the worst feeling I've experienced. The second: He didn't come very much and didn't enjoy it as much as I did.
9. I get really hot over the thought of being raped. My boyfriend and I "fake rape" all the time.
10. When I was young, maybe 4 or 5, my other 4-year-old cousin and I sat behind a chair in our grandparent's family room and touched each other's vaginas. I don't remember what even led into that situation, but it always makes me feel very dirty. We giggled about it tingling and how red it was. I don't know if she remembers but I really hope she doesn't.
11. I've had boyfriends since 7th grade, but I never did much with them but kiss and make out. I first touched a boy's penis in 8th grade; it was through his jeans and I didn't realize what it was for a couple minutes. I remember thinking that it might have been his penis, but it seemed too skinny and long. I thought it was a pencil in his pocket.
12. The first time I saw a penis was my freshman year. The guy I dated was much older than me but still hadn't done anything sexual with anyone before. He whipped it out and a little bit of cum dripped on my basement floor.
13. Sometimes I feel bad thinking about women all the time. I'm constantly looking at beautiful girls and wondering how they would feel naked. I picture them licking me out and letting me take erotic photos during sex.
14. My friend once asked me to have a threesome with her and her boyfriend. I almost did but I didn't feel any attraction to him, and awkwardly turned her down the night it was supposed to happen. I also almost had a MMF threesome in a car, but both guys were too fucked up to do anything. I still want to have a threesome, though. I think about it a lot, but I don't know anyone I would feel comfortable enough with.
15. I am very loud during sex. I love moaning and squealing and dirty talk.
16. I think I am very good at giving head. I was very proud when I made the bi boy's toes curl for the first time.
17. I don't like receiving head very much. It's not like the guys who have given it to me were bad at it, it's just never done anything for me. I always feel like I'm just laying there with a nose in my pussy. I get paranoid that I smell funny and it's far too much distraction to actually cum.
18. I always feel stupid about not being able to swallow cum. I've done it before but the guy was a vegetarian and his cum actually tasted good. My boyfriend doesn't taste too bad, but once he came so much in my mouth that I choked and almost puked. Ever since it makes me gag.
19. Sometimes I think about being in an open relationship, but I know it would end up with me just fooling around with other girls and him feeling too shy to ever branch out. Plus, I've never felt so good and comfortable in bed with anyone. I guess I just want to kiss a girl sometimes...
20. For the longest time I wanted to take a bath in chocolate and have my boyfriend lick it off me and fuck me silly. I don't think that would actually do anything for me now... I don't really know if I have a fantasy.
21. I always have sex with the lights on. I love to watch his face when he orgasms.
22. When I first started masturbating it involved me humping a big stuffed dog. I would hump its face so its nose went in my pussy a little bit. Every night I would feel so guilty and tell myself to stop. As I got older I started just wadding up bed sheets and riding those. I couldn't really understand what I was doing, I didn't realize it was masturbation until health class when I learned girls could masturbate. Then I used my fingers and stopped feeling guilty.
23. Before I actually started masturbating I would pretend I was being tortured. I would lay in bed with legs spread as if I were tied down and pretend a large object was being forced between my legs. It still turns me on.
24. In kindergarten I would draw pictures of me and the boy I had a crush on naked together. Not actually having sex. Just naked in the shower or outside. Being naked with my love is still the greatest feeling in the world.
25. Every time my boyfriend and I have sex, we end up laughing right afterwards, usually with his cock still in me.
2. The guy I lost my virginity to was a complete dick. He had a small cock and didn't even know what he was doing. He got me drunk after I had recently been broken up with and fucked me. I feel guilty, like I'm one of those girls who is just blaming the guy for having sex when she didn't want to, but he completely played me. He said we were going to date, and that he might love me. He left me two weeks later.
3. The second guy I had sex with could have been a fantastic fuck. He was pretty experienced and loved sex. He was bisexual and promiscuous and I really regret not being more outgoing. He wanted to try anal. I was scared. I always felt uncomfortable being sexual with him. I loved him though.
4. I have finally accepted myself as bi. I've only made out with one girl but I love how soft and frisky we are. Soft hands on soft breasts. I love boobs and the idea of a girl licking my tits and playing with me. I don't know if I ever will...
5. I'm trying to be more adventurous with my boyfriend. We've finally been able to buy toys. It is amazing.
6. I took my boyfriend's virginity earlier this year. He is inexperienced but I love it; everything he learns is exactly how to please my body. We're currently working on making me squirt, and it seems to be going well.
7. I orgasmed for the first time earlier this year. I've been masturbating since I was about 10 but I've never been able to do it for myself. I always get tired out.
8. I've only orgasmed twice during sex. The first time, it was one of the most amazing feelings of my life. But when he pulled out we realized the condom broke, which then led to the worst feeling I've experienced. The second: He didn't come very much and didn't enjoy it as much as I did.
9. I get really hot over the thought of being raped. My boyfriend and I "fake rape" all the time.
10. When I was young, maybe 4 or 5, my other 4-year-old cousin and I sat behind a chair in our grandparent's family room and touched each other's vaginas. I don't remember what even led into that situation, but it always makes me feel very dirty. We giggled about it tingling and how red it was. I don't know if she remembers but I really hope she doesn't.
11. I've had boyfriends since 7th grade, but I never did much with them but kiss and make out. I first touched a boy's penis in 8th grade; it was through his jeans and I didn't realize what it was for a couple minutes. I remember thinking that it might have been his penis, but it seemed too skinny and long. I thought it was a pencil in his pocket.
12. The first time I saw a penis was my freshman year. The guy I dated was much older than me but still hadn't done anything sexual with anyone before. He whipped it out and a little bit of cum dripped on my basement floor.
13. Sometimes I feel bad thinking about women all the time. I'm constantly looking at beautiful girls and wondering how they would feel naked. I picture them licking me out and letting me take erotic photos during sex.
14. My friend once asked me to have a threesome with her and her boyfriend. I almost did but I didn't feel any attraction to him, and awkwardly turned her down the night it was supposed to happen. I also almost had a MMF threesome in a car, but both guys were too fucked up to do anything. I still want to have a threesome, though. I think about it a lot, but I don't know anyone I would feel comfortable enough with.
15. I am very loud during sex. I love moaning and squealing and dirty talk.
16. I think I am very good at giving head. I was very proud when I made the bi boy's toes curl for the first time.
17. I don't like receiving head very much. It's not like the guys who have given it to me were bad at it, it's just never done anything for me. I always feel like I'm just laying there with a nose in my pussy. I get paranoid that I smell funny and it's far too much distraction to actually cum.
18. I always feel stupid about not being able to swallow cum. I've done it before but the guy was a vegetarian and his cum actually tasted good. My boyfriend doesn't taste too bad, but once he came so much in my mouth that I choked and almost puked. Ever since it makes me gag.
19. Sometimes I think about being in an open relationship, but I know it would end up with me just fooling around with other girls and him feeling too shy to ever branch out. Plus, I've never felt so good and comfortable in bed with anyone. I guess I just want to kiss a girl sometimes...
20. For the longest time I wanted to take a bath in chocolate and have my boyfriend lick it off me and fuck me silly. I don't think that would actually do anything for me now... I don't really know if I have a fantasy.
21. I always have sex with the lights on. I love to watch his face when he orgasms.
22. When I first started masturbating it involved me humping a big stuffed dog. I would hump its face so its nose went in my pussy a little bit. Every night I would feel so guilty and tell myself to stop. As I got older I started just wadding up bed sheets and riding those. I couldn't really understand what I was doing, I didn't realize it was masturbation until health class when I learned girls could masturbate. Then I used my fingers and stopped feeling guilty.
23. Before I actually started masturbating I would pretend I was being tortured. I would lay in bed with legs spread as if I were tied down and pretend a large object was being forced between my legs. It still turns me on.
24. In kindergarten I would draw pictures of me and the boy I had a crush on naked together. Not actually having sex. Just naked in the shower or outside. Being naked with my love is still the greatest feeling in the world.
25. Every time my boyfriend and I have sex, we end up laughing right afterwards, usually with his cock still in me.
(1) I am 19 and recently lost my virginity, about 2 months ago.
(2) It started by me being amazingly drunk, going up to a gorgeous man saying "Do you have any idea how fucking cute you are?" And he was--he looked like a mix between the boy I was in love with during high school plus his way cuter twin. I know he was a 29-year-old Swiss man and he had an amazing body. We were talking at the bar for a while and obviously it turned to having sex. When I told him I was a virgin, his response was "Do you want to change that?"
(3) I honestly don't remember much of the actual sex, it was rough and fun and dirty and raw. It hurt but was worth it, and Mr. Swiss was the perfect mix between gentle and rough. God, just thinking about him gets me all excited, he was so amazingly cute and I'm sort of proud that i nailed him. I left that night because my best friend was freaking out. I left without my shoes, underwear, or bra... quite trashy for my first time.
(4) Once I finally lost my virginity this 19-year weight was lifted and it felt amazing. I had been a virgin for so long because I didnt want to "give" it to anyone I would ever see again, and I was terrified of letting my guard down to allow someone to literally penetrate me.
(5) After Mr. Swiss I've had sex with 2 other guys, both being one night stands. There was "the Marine," who I had sex with in the back of his car and that was fun not because of the sex but because of the threat of being caught or someone watching us, and "one-night-standy," who was actually really sweet and a great kisser. I told him to take it slow because I was just at that drunk point of being really really sleepy, and it was amazing. We kissed the whole time and when he came he squeezed me tight and pushed himself deeper which was pretty adorable.
(6) Besides these three nights I don't have much experience. When I was in high school, I was always around people 4-5 years older then me, none of whom were sleazy enough to go after an underage virgin.
(7) Like I said I sort of had a penetration complex--I wanted it but I didn't want anyone to get it from me.
(8) I've been in love with my brother's best friend (who I've known since I was born) since I was about 11. It's easier for a young girl to fall for an older brother type than an older boy to fall for a younger sister type.
(9) I don't think I have ever thought to myself "oh man I want to be his girlfriend," but rather I think my sexual impulses of how badly I want to have sex with an attractive boy. So I don't really call my crushes "crushes," I call them "targets."
(10) Sometimes it makes me sad that I'm so alone all the time, but at the same time it's become my nature. I'm extremely guarded and hesitate to any emotional bonding. I usually freak out if I know a boy has a crush on me because I don't understand why--I don't understand how someone can crush on me when I'm so emotionally stand offish.
(11) Although I'm guarded I can now say that I do love having sex and I would not mind just having one-night stands and flings for the rest of my life.
(12) I don't think I'm a lesbian or bi, but I would really enjoy an experience with another woman, because I love boobs and would love to play with someone's other than my own. I don't think I could give or receive oral from another girl, but it would be fun to mess around and have fun with.
(13) I am extremely attracted to handsome Asian men. Not all Asians are cute but the cute ones are REALLY cute--oh and I don't really get the feminization of Asian men.
(14) There are so many ways I want to have sex: outside, in the shower, up against a wall, in the kitchen, in a pool, on a patio, in my childhood bed, and basically everywhere else possible.
(15) I hate giving head, I lack the confidence and I never know if I'm doing well or not, so I usually try and avoid doing it at all.
(16) I really like getting dressed up for no reason. I'm not usually the type of girl to wear dresses or skirts, I'm a tomboy engineer and I want to be a mechanic in life, so when I am all dressed up I feel nearly like a different person.
(17) I love having my ass squeezed or squeezing someone else's, whether it be drunkenly flirting with someone or a squeeze during a make out session. I think I just like the feeling of being pulled in tighter and tighter, so what's more passionate than a firm ass squeeze?
(18) My friends call it my "go to move," but rather than the tacky hands in the back pocket I usually slip my hands onto a boy's hips, under his jeans, not all that far down or anything--it's just a cozy warm spot that gets the point across.
(19) Thinking back on my virgin life, it's funny because I never really explicitly told anyone I was a virgin and I think most people thought I wasn't because I make so many obscene jokes about sex and such.
(20) At school, I hang out with all my engineering guy friends and it gets to me that I have like girl talk and such. It also gets to me that I know there is a line in our relationships that can't be crossed.
(21) I change my pubic hair as much as possible, I can't decide and I go from nothing to a little puff to maybe full grown. No reason really, it just entertains me really to see something different down there.
(22) I really enjoy the thought of being seen, not like by a peeping tom--that actually scares the shit out of me--but like wearing a skirt with no underwear. I fantasize a lot about getting it on in public or on a patio somewhere that may be seen.
(23) I've never had a boyfriend or anything close, really. I was always very reserved around boys my age when I was younger... yet I always loved being around my brother and his friends.
(24) I've never been attracted to someone my age or younger. If I am, I usually freak a little and talk myself out of it. I like talking to older guys about things I don't know. I also like taller guys.
(25) I can't wait to explore my sexuality and figure out my vices and peeves. Hopefully I won't get too out of control or anything, because I've had issues with self-control in the past.
(2) It started by me being amazingly drunk, going up to a gorgeous man saying "Do you have any idea how fucking cute you are?" And he was--he looked like a mix between the boy I was in love with during high school plus his way cuter twin. I know he was a 29-year-old Swiss man and he had an amazing body. We were talking at the bar for a while and obviously it turned to having sex. When I told him I was a virgin, his response was "Do you want to change that?"
(3) I honestly don't remember much of the actual sex, it was rough and fun and dirty and raw. It hurt but was worth it, and Mr. Swiss was the perfect mix between gentle and rough. God, just thinking about him gets me all excited, he was so amazingly cute and I'm sort of proud that i nailed him. I left that night because my best friend was freaking out. I left without my shoes, underwear, or bra... quite trashy for my first time.
(4) Once I finally lost my virginity this 19-year weight was lifted and it felt amazing. I had been a virgin for so long because I didnt want to "give" it to anyone I would ever see again, and I was terrified of letting my guard down to allow someone to literally penetrate me.
(5) After Mr. Swiss I've had sex with 2 other guys, both being one night stands. There was "the Marine," who I had sex with in the back of his car and that was fun not because of the sex but because of the threat of being caught or someone watching us, and "one-night-standy," who was actually really sweet and a great kisser. I told him to take it slow because I was just at that drunk point of being really really sleepy, and it was amazing. We kissed the whole time and when he came he squeezed me tight and pushed himself deeper which was pretty adorable.
(6) Besides these three nights I don't have much experience. When I was in high school, I was always around people 4-5 years older then me, none of whom were sleazy enough to go after an underage virgin.
(7) Like I said I sort of had a penetration complex--I wanted it but I didn't want anyone to get it from me.
(8) I've been in love with my brother's best friend (who I've known since I was born) since I was about 11. It's easier for a young girl to fall for an older brother type than an older boy to fall for a younger sister type.
(9) I don't think I have ever thought to myself "oh man I want to be his girlfriend," but rather I think my sexual impulses of how badly I want to have sex with an attractive boy. So I don't really call my crushes "crushes," I call them "targets."
(10) Sometimes it makes me sad that I'm so alone all the time, but at the same time it's become my nature. I'm extremely guarded and hesitate to any emotional bonding. I usually freak out if I know a boy has a crush on me because I don't understand why--I don't understand how someone can crush on me when I'm so emotionally stand offish.
(11) Although I'm guarded I can now say that I do love having sex and I would not mind just having one-night stands and flings for the rest of my life.
(12) I don't think I'm a lesbian or bi, but I would really enjoy an experience with another woman, because I love boobs and would love to play with someone's other than my own. I don't think I could give or receive oral from another girl, but it would be fun to mess around and have fun with.
(13) I am extremely attracted to handsome Asian men. Not all Asians are cute but the cute ones are REALLY cute--oh and I don't really get the feminization of Asian men.
(14) There are so many ways I want to have sex: outside, in the shower, up against a wall, in the kitchen, in a pool, on a patio, in my childhood bed, and basically everywhere else possible.
(15) I hate giving head, I lack the confidence and I never know if I'm doing well or not, so I usually try and avoid doing it at all.
(16) I really like getting dressed up for no reason. I'm not usually the type of girl to wear dresses or skirts, I'm a tomboy engineer and I want to be a mechanic in life, so when I am all dressed up I feel nearly like a different person.
(17) I love having my ass squeezed or squeezing someone else's, whether it be drunkenly flirting with someone or a squeeze during a make out session. I think I just like the feeling of being pulled in tighter and tighter, so what's more passionate than a firm ass squeeze?
(18) My friends call it my "go to move," but rather than the tacky hands in the back pocket I usually slip my hands onto a boy's hips, under his jeans, not all that far down or anything--it's just a cozy warm spot that gets the point across.
(19) Thinking back on my virgin life, it's funny because I never really explicitly told anyone I was a virgin and I think most people thought I wasn't because I make so many obscene jokes about sex and such.
(20) At school, I hang out with all my engineering guy friends and it gets to me that I have like girl talk and such. It also gets to me that I know there is a line in our relationships that can't be crossed.
(21) I change my pubic hair as much as possible, I can't decide and I go from nothing to a little puff to maybe full grown. No reason really, it just entertains me really to see something different down there.
(22) I really enjoy the thought of being seen, not like by a peeping tom--that actually scares the shit out of me--but like wearing a skirt with no underwear. I fantasize a lot about getting it on in public or on a patio somewhere that may be seen.
(23) I've never had a boyfriend or anything close, really. I was always very reserved around boys my age when I was younger... yet I always loved being around my brother and his friends.
(24) I've never been attracted to someone my age or younger. If I am, I usually freak a little and talk myself out of it. I like talking to older guys about things I don't know. I also like taller guys.
(25) I can't wait to explore my sexuality and figure out my vices and peeves. Hopefully I won't get too out of control or anything, because I've had issues with self-control in the past.
1. I lost my virginity at 17, and it was the best thing that had happened to me in a long time. Up until that point I had only kissed.
2. For as long as I can remember one of my favorite things has been sex and all sex related topics.
3. I first started masturbating around 13-14 and haven't stopped since. I masturbate at least 6 times a week, if not more.
4. I lost my virginity with my first ever boyfriend, and we had been going out for 2 weeks. We had tried previously but I chickened out and he had to go to sleep with an erection, which I still tease him about.
5. I have always known that I would be into rough sex, including slapping, spanking, biting, dirty talk, blindfolding, handcuffing, gagging, all kinds of domination in general, I guess.
6. I have an insatiable sexual appetite, which I feel bad about sometimes because I'm scared of making my boyfriend feel inadequate.
7. Nothing turns me on more than tall Native American men. (My boyfriend is half Asian, but looks Native American, and I have never been so attracted to anyone in my life).
8. I don't believe that someone's sexuality should matter to anyone but themselves and whoever they choose to experience it with.
9. I love to sit in a public place and make up a sexual fetish/fantasy for each person that walks past. Not what I would do with them, but something they secretly want but are too afraid to ask for.
10. I love to have a finger or two up my ass during sex or oral, but I'm hesitant about anal sex. I consider it to be losing a different type of virginity, and want to conquer my fear of it before I try it.
11. I feel sorry for people who are scared to try new things. I'm of the opinion that if there is just one thing out there that could blow your mind, it's worth trying everything to get to.
12. I thought that my first orgasm was the most amazing thing I'd ever experienced, until I had my first orgasm with someone else.
13. I adore women's bodies, and would not hesitate to have sex with a woman if I was single. I kissed a lot of women in my teenage years, but never had the guts to go any further.
14. I've kissed more girls than boys. I've also kissed more girls than my boyfriend.
15. My partner and I are so comfortable with each other we don't think twice about getting poo on our fingers during butt play, which is more wonderful than I ever could have imagined.
16. The first time I got naked with a boy I wanted to get dressed right away, I was that uncomfortable with my body.
17. As long as I can remember, I have hated my body, and always wished to look different. Things are looking up nowadays, but I still have my dark moments.
18. I'm always my happiest when I'm having sex, it seems both the simplest and greatest thing two people can spend their time doing. I never feel self-conscious or uncomfortable when I'm having sex, and I think that has a lot to do with my love of it.
19. One of my greatest sexual moments was when my boyfriend had to use a pillow to smother his moans while I was giving him head and fucking his butt with my fingers.
20. I am a very tall woman, and have hated it for as long as I was aware of it. Men seem threatened by tall women, especially one as loud as me, and so I love to be hugged and spooned by someone taller and bigger than me. It makes me feel small and delicate, which is something I've always wanted to feel.
21. I love cute women and androgynous women. I would love to be a feminine lesbian in a lesbian relationship, but get the feeling that I would take on a masculine role because I tend to act towards people how I would like them to act towards me (both sexually and in life).
22. I like to watch porn, but hate the fake looking women and unrealistic sexual expectations. But if the woman is attractive I find myself getting jealous and unable to think of anything else. I'm confident that this will stop happening when I feel better about myself.
23. In grade 10 I told everyone that I was bisexual, and from that time onward I was known as "That girl who said she was bisexual in Grade 10". My sexual feelings haven't changed from that time, but I don't feel the need to tell everyone about it so blatantly anymore.
24. I have an obsession with small, perky breasts and small, pink nipples. Julianne Moore has my favorite female nipples of all time. Watch Boogie Nights and see for yourself.
25. I'm confident that I will always be fulfilled sexually because I'm not ashamed to ask for what I need, and the person I am with will understand that completely about me, because I wouldn't be with them otherwise.
2. For as long as I can remember one of my favorite things has been sex and all sex related topics.
3. I first started masturbating around 13-14 and haven't stopped since. I masturbate at least 6 times a week, if not more.
4. I lost my virginity with my first ever boyfriend, and we had been going out for 2 weeks. We had tried previously but I chickened out and he had to go to sleep with an erection, which I still tease him about.
5. I have always known that I would be into rough sex, including slapping, spanking, biting, dirty talk, blindfolding, handcuffing, gagging, all kinds of domination in general, I guess.
6. I have an insatiable sexual appetite, which I feel bad about sometimes because I'm scared of making my boyfriend feel inadequate.
7. Nothing turns me on more than tall Native American men. (My boyfriend is half Asian, but looks Native American, and I have never been so attracted to anyone in my life).
8. I don't believe that someone's sexuality should matter to anyone but themselves and whoever they choose to experience it with.
9. I love to sit in a public place and make up a sexual fetish/fantasy for each person that walks past. Not what I would do with them, but something they secretly want but are too afraid to ask for.
10. I love to have a finger or two up my ass during sex or oral, but I'm hesitant about anal sex. I consider it to be losing a different type of virginity, and want to conquer my fear of it before I try it.
11. I feel sorry for people who are scared to try new things. I'm of the opinion that if there is just one thing out there that could blow your mind, it's worth trying everything to get to.
12. I thought that my first orgasm was the most amazing thing I'd ever experienced, until I had my first orgasm with someone else.
13. I adore women's bodies, and would not hesitate to have sex with a woman if I was single. I kissed a lot of women in my teenage years, but never had the guts to go any further.
14. I've kissed more girls than boys. I've also kissed more girls than my boyfriend.
15. My partner and I are so comfortable with each other we don't think twice about getting poo on our fingers during butt play, which is more wonderful than I ever could have imagined.
16. The first time I got naked with a boy I wanted to get dressed right away, I was that uncomfortable with my body.
17. As long as I can remember, I have hated my body, and always wished to look different. Things are looking up nowadays, but I still have my dark moments.
18. I'm always my happiest when I'm having sex, it seems both the simplest and greatest thing two people can spend their time doing. I never feel self-conscious or uncomfortable when I'm having sex, and I think that has a lot to do with my love of it.
19. One of my greatest sexual moments was when my boyfriend had to use a pillow to smother his moans while I was giving him head and fucking his butt with my fingers.
20. I am a very tall woman, and have hated it for as long as I was aware of it. Men seem threatened by tall women, especially one as loud as me, and so I love to be hugged and spooned by someone taller and bigger than me. It makes me feel small and delicate, which is something I've always wanted to feel.
21. I love cute women and androgynous women. I would love to be a feminine lesbian in a lesbian relationship, but get the feeling that I would take on a masculine role because I tend to act towards people how I would like them to act towards me (both sexually and in life).
22. I like to watch porn, but hate the fake looking women and unrealistic sexual expectations. But if the woman is attractive I find myself getting jealous and unable to think of anything else. I'm confident that this will stop happening when I feel better about myself.
23. In grade 10 I told everyone that I was bisexual, and from that time onward I was known as "That girl who said she was bisexual in Grade 10". My sexual feelings haven't changed from that time, but I don't feel the need to tell everyone about it so blatantly anymore.
24. I have an obsession with small, perky breasts and small, pink nipples. Julianne Moore has my favorite female nipples of all time. Watch Boogie Nights and see for yourself.
25. I'm confident that I will always be fulfilled sexually because I'm not ashamed to ask for what I need, and the person I am with will understand that completely about me, because I wouldn't be with them otherwise.
Monday, December 7, 2009
1. When I was really young, I got a sexual/presexual thrill from imagining people being tortured.
2. I still do, but the torture is overtly sexual now. I come hard from this but I always feel dirty afterwards.
3. I read my first m/m story when I was 12, and didn't understand the feeling I got from it for weeks. It scared me.
4. Ever since then, I've fantasized about men together.
5. The only thing I'd ever want to do with a cisgender guy is tie him up and touch him and maybe draw on him with lipstick. I want to draw on a tied-up man with lipstick.
6. I'm a lesbian. I don't understand heterosexual discourse or what to do when a man is flirting with me or why I should care if men find me attractive.
7. I think I'm bi. I think men are so fucking pretty. I wanted to be one for a while.
8. I think breasts are thrilling because the girl is naked.
9. I love eating pussy. I really, really fucking love eating pussy. I wish my jaw didn't get sore.
10. I'm butch and I'm starting to be okay with that.
11. There's one cisgendered man in the world I would fuck. I don't think he'd fuck me, but I think we'd be friends if he wasn't famous.
12. My boyfriend is trans. I fell in love with him when he was a girl. I didn't stop loving him or wanting him when he came out as trans.
13. I think trans women are women more than I am, because they are working so hard to be accepted as women and I have never worked to be accepted as a woman.
14. I'm not trans, although I thought I was for a while. I'm a woman and I don't want to change that.
15. But I would like to live out a masculine role. I want to be Don Draper or James Dean and still have people refer to me as "she."
16. There is nothing in the world sexier than a woman who has the look and attitude of a man.
17. I like having hairy legs.
18. I've never come by the hand of another person. It's always been my own hand or a vibrator, but always directed by me.
19. The idea of having someone else make me come is scary and I want it to happen.
20. I love being tied up. I've loved being tied up ever since I was eight years old.
21. I always fall in love with my best friends. I always end up making love to them.
22. I saw my first love married, and I was happy for her, and all I could think at the wedding was that I had my hand down her pants once.
23. I still dream about my ex-girlfriend, the one that was toxic for me. I don't know why.
24. Part of the reason I love my boyfriend because he understands almost all of my kinks and nobody else ever will, not the same way.
25. I love writing stories about sex more than I love having sex.
2. I still do, but the torture is overtly sexual now. I come hard from this but I always feel dirty afterwards.
3. I read my first m/m story when I was 12, and didn't understand the feeling I got from it for weeks. It scared me.
4. Ever since then, I've fantasized about men together.
5. The only thing I'd ever want to do with a cisgender guy is tie him up and touch him and maybe draw on him with lipstick. I want to draw on a tied-up man with lipstick.
6. I'm a lesbian. I don't understand heterosexual discourse or what to do when a man is flirting with me or why I should care if men find me attractive.
7. I think I'm bi. I think men are so fucking pretty. I wanted to be one for a while.
8. I think breasts are thrilling because the girl is naked.
9. I love eating pussy. I really, really fucking love eating pussy. I wish my jaw didn't get sore.
10. I'm butch and I'm starting to be okay with that.
11. There's one cisgendered man in the world I would fuck. I don't think he'd fuck me, but I think we'd be friends if he wasn't famous.
12. My boyfriend is trans. I fell in love with him when he was a girl. I didn't stop loving him or wanting him when he came out as trans.
13. I think trans women are women more than I am, because they are working so hard to be accepted as women and I have never worked to be accepted as a woman.
14. I'm not trans, although I thought I was for a while. I'm a woman and I don't want to change that.
15. But I would like to live out a masculine role. I want to be Don Draper or James Dean and still have people refer to me as "she."
16. There is nothing in the world sexier than a woman who has the look and attitude of a man.
17. I like having hairy legs.
18. I've never come by the hand of another person. It's always been my own hand or a vibrator, but always directed by me.
19. The idea of having someone else make me come is scary and I want it to happen.
20. I love being tied up. I've loved being tied up ever since I was eight years old.
21. I always fall in love with my best friends. I always end up making love to them.
22. I saw my first love married, and I was happy for her, and all I could think at the wedding was that I had my hand down her pants once.
23. I still dream about my ex-girlfriend, the one that was toxic for me. I don't know why.
24. Part of the reason I love my boyfriend because he understands almost all of my kinks and nobody else ever will, not the same way.
25. I love writing stories about sex more than I love having sex.
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