Friday, March 13, 2009

1. I am a 30 year old man and I have never had sex, never been jerked off, caressed or seen naked.

2. I can't remember how old I was when I first started to masturbate.

3. I enjoy masturbating.

4. Sometimes I think that I masturbate too much.

5. Have been known to masturbate 3 times a day. It is very rare that I don't masturbate at least once a day.

6. I use porn. I used to buy magazines but now I mainly use the internet. Have been a member of a lot of pay sites.

7. Erotica is more enjoyable to me than hardcore porn. I think that there is an exploitative and abusive element to most hardcore pornography and although it arouses me and ultimately I jerk off to it I do feel guilty and dirty sometimes.

8. With erotica the power of suggestion is a massive turn on. Non nude erotica is especially appealing to me as it focuses on the natural beauty of the model.

9. I love women. I think that the female body is a thing of beauty.

10. It amazes me that women find the male body attractive.

11. I have often wondered what it would be like to be a women and how it would feel to be penetrated by a penis.

12. Having an erection is a brilliant feeling, gently stroking my penis and caressing my body really turns me on.

13. More than anything I want to have sex but I am painfully shy and I have no idea as to 'how to pick women up'. I think that I am moderately attractive, I just have no confidence. I have had girlfriends but sex has never been part of the (in all cases) short relationships. Is the man always expected to make the first move?

14. When I was 15 and 16 I used to cut pictures out of magazines then cycle to the local common / park, find a secluded spot and masturbate outdoors to the pictures. that used to make me so horny.

15. I once masturbated in someone's porch whilst doing my paper round. I just felt really horny all of a sudden and just had to have a wank.

16. I love the taste of my pre cum.

17. Sometimes I insert a finger up my arse and massage my G spot. That leads to some very intense orgasms.

18. It is such a turn on caressing my legs and thighs whilst wearing stockings and tights.

19. I am far too independent and whilst the idea of being in a relationship appeals to me I don't like the idea of being dependent on and being depended on. This is another reason why I am still a virgin. I am a sexual person but I don't want to have sex with someone just for the sake of it.

20. When I lose my virginity I want it to be with someone I'm at the very least attracted to, but that I'm ideally in love with. I have yet to meet a woman who has been patient with me and understands that I'm a virgin. That simple fact really puts women off balance. Thinking about it, it's probably a turn off, which is kinda strange because if I was a woman and a virgin there would probably be a host of men beating down my door to 'de-flower' me.

21. I have often thought of posing nude for a photo shoot.

22. I used to use my imagination a lot but hardly ever now.

23. I want someone to take control of me, to teach me. I'd make a very willing sex student.

24. The thought of being hand cuffed / tied up is very arousing.

25. Have thought of hiring a prostitute to lose my virginity to but coupled with my extensive use of pornography I'm not sure if that would distort and effect future relationships and sexual encounters with women.