Tuesday, March 10, 2009

1. I have not yet slept with another person.
2. Although I have a high libido, I didn't have an orgasm until I was 20 years old.
3. I use my vibrator almost every single day.
4. The most orgasms I ever had in one day is 3.
5. The whole concept of BDSM is very intriguing to me. Especially the D part. All of my fantasies involve strong men who have absolute power over me.
6. I popped my own cherry. It was a moment of total self-determination.
7. I haven't given head yet and I am worried that I won't like the tastes, the smells, and the textures.
8. But I am adventurous and willing to try anything with the right partner.
9. I think I am still a "virgin" because I am too scared to make myself that vulnerable in front of another person, even though it is what I want most in the world.
10. I am plus-sized, which contributes to confidence issues.
11. I talk about sexuality openly with the rest of my family...we have no secrets from each other.
12. I don't understand women who set so many conditions about sex, i.e. "I'll do this if you do this," "I won't do this if you do this," etc. I will be flexible and welcoming once I finally meet the right person to share my gifts with.
13. I would be interested in being with another woman.
14. I hate the term bisexual, because I feel that it indicates a 50/50 attraction for both sexes and that is not the case for me. I am be interested in maybe 1 out of 100 women and 1 out of 10 men.
15. Having said that, I grew up in a lesbian household which was very difficult.
16. If no one I knew was aware of me doing it, I would consider being in a porn movie.
17. I shortly dated a man 17 years older than me...hence the short relationship.
18. For four generations back on my mom's side, we have had "hot-blooded and lusty" women in our family.
19. A man does not have to be traditionally handsome for me to be attracted to him. Short and overly hairy are turn-offs, but I like manly men.
20. Exotic cultures have always turned me on, especially anything associated with India.
21. The same goes for ancient cultures- movies like Troy turn me on so much.
22. The only sexual act I would hesitate about performing is having a 3some. The psychology behind it might mess me up.
23. When I got the "Sex Talk," it took me a few years to figure how sex actually worked. I didn't understand erections or how the couple move together. It took books, movies, and porn to completely solve the puzzle.
24. Costumes and corsets are so sexy to me. I have always loved dressing up and fantasizing in costume.
25. I don't think it will be much longer before I sleep with another person.